9 Signs of a Secret Narcissist | Covert Narcissist Test
Secret Narcissists are hard to spot. Look closely for the 9 signs of covert narcissism in your suspected narc. Also take the Narcissist Mother Test: ...
Having the narcissist animated as a woman, bad idea. Making a video about
something you obviously know nothing about, bad idea. This seems more like
a scorned man having a tantrum via cartoon. Likely his wife left him,
therefore she is automatically a demon who needs to be boxed and
categorised so as to avoid him taking a look at his life and his own
mistakes. Pretty narcissistic if you ask me.
+Shannon Crew I disagree.It's more like a stroppy teenager describing his/her mother after she grounded him/her. The more I watch the video, the more I feel like this is actually about someone's mother.
Those psychopathic ones are even more vicious. They are constantly paying
attention to their surroundings trying to figure out the best ways to
manipulate people. They usually have patterns they stand behind and use on
everyone. They will strategically find ways to undermined you. They will
vilify you and make you look crazy to others because you refuse to play by
their rules. They can become psychotic and can be very dangerous. They hate
you and can hold grudges for a very long time. Just leave them alone. Don't
do what I did and try to hold them accountable, it will only work against
you.
+Amy Choisser very true, cut all ties with them, then they will lose all pover over you. I had to do so too, because my own mental health started to suffer because of the stress they gave me. My stress hormone was high, I lost sleep, when seeking for legal help to protect me. They will never stop at anything, they will go so far as they can, or they are stopped by law.Don't even answer their email, no matter how wrong things they say in it, don't even defend yourself.They will take it as a sign to continue fighting.
+Joselyn Martinez (BookTalkWithJoss) This video describes Hillary Clinton as if it were her autobiography. You will be voting for her though, is that correct?
+Kwel News It may appear that way, but it also shows you have either never been around one or if you were, the inability to recognize what they are. You are fortunate if you go through life and never experience being around one of these demonic blood-sucking predators.
From a youtube comment regarding an ex : "I saw none of the grandiosity and excitement reported in all other articles. " If there is a lack of grandiosity/excitement ...
THANK YOU!
This IS my mother.
I've been struggling with calling her a Narcissist since she was always
self doubting and self pitying so I thought: "Maybe she's N with a touch of
BPD and a bit bipolar"?
But this sums her up better than any other explanation I've ever heard!
I can tell you right now I've never met a more "sick" person that at the
same time is healthy enough to go and waste her last money on unnecessary
shopping!
Though she have admitted to not having a great childhood 'cause she was
bullied in school and was the black sheep at home.
And also a lot of Münchausen by proxy (to disguise that she was a bad
mother).
She is a psychologist but always seemed to be out of work, hmm... I wonder
why! ;)
+candygirl Yeah, and it's funny how she would always push peoples buttons so that they would become mad at her and at the same time look stupid for being "too emotional" while she was the rational, cool person.It makes me think that she was probably addicted to creating drama so that she could act like she was the victim.No wonder every family dinner was about either trying to get her in a good mood or me becoming mad at her and saying something that would create an awkward situation that made me look bad.
+OkLio0 Pity is a ploy. It's a tool used in order to easily win and get what they want. When we pity others we give them more excuses and forgiveness for misbehavior. It's Deception!
I'm waking from my sleep believing the lies. Thank YOU for your videos. I
chuckled a lot. Now I can because I'm submitting to the truth vs fearing
the truth. And way was learning to love thy self!! :)
A covert ALWAYS talks about their pain and also using words that has the ability to trigger us into a conscious awareness state by the frequency they use the world "I". Hidden is its all about them.
Thank you thank you thank you for helping me not feel guilty and crazy and
paranoid. I was engaged with a woman whom you described perfectly, even the
bit about her having suffered trauma which occurred during her development
which adds credence to the thought this is a developmental issue. My fiance
had cheated on me with multiple men and refused to apologize even with
overwhelming evidence including giving me a venereal disease. This, sadly,
was what brought me eventually to this great video. Thanks again.
I wonder.....how would you differentiate a "shy" narcissist from someone
with Asperger's? Given that the person with Asperger's, appears to have a
lot of the same traits, except Asperger's people don't want to hurt
other's, and they feel bad when they do; where as the Narcissist doesn't
seem to care if they hurt other's? So how would you tell the difference
between someone with Asperger's; who just wants to fit in, has a hard time
doing it, and gets defensive when criticized because they are always just
trying to fit in, but always seem to screw it up, because they have such
poor social skills? How would you be able to tell if, the person really is
a, "shy" narcissist, and is using Asperger's as a cover up?
I don't know if you will ever read these, but the video was very informative, except; there is still the question of, if one can tell if a "covert" narcissist is using Asperger's as a cover up, to "close the deal"; trap the codependent into a life with them? Your list of three important things to look for, is good, but I'm just wondering if a covert narcissist, would spend a long time, hiding those 3 things, and using Asperger's to cover it up, and he has no problem talking about his issues, and that he has issues, but he does lie about things, to avoid ridicule and shame.
My husband is a diagnosed narcissist. He does apologize and often. He will
say he is sorry over and over but it goes no further than that. There is no
conversation about how the behavior has affected anyone around him. And it
seems that the word sorry means to him that we can move on now and you need
to get over it. So sorry from him means nothing to me now. And the behavior
continues regardless of how sorry he is. He may be sorry but refuses to be
accountable. And he lives in a world of no co.
+Mischelle Bowser Yes, I understand this perfectly. I don't think they can FEEL true remorse or inner pain. They are void of genuine connection and empathy to those they claim they love.
I have just become aware that i have been with a covert narc for 4 1/2 years. I am literally 1week post "grand finale".. I'm raw with pain, confusion, self hate, embarrassment, anger, loss, devastation all of the ugliest emotions a human can experience, and him?? he is on his way to new Orleans for vacation... not even a sorry, good bye, oh wait...he sent a text telling me sorry this didn't work out for ME!? A text... 4yrs of my life and future ends with a text and the blame only after smearing my character to his family,children and our friends. the only thing I have keeping me functional srr these videos.... thank u
+Mischelle Bowser Right, my ex was like this, too. If pressed, he would apologize, but to him that meant it was instantly all the way over, and if I wanted to talk through the very significant events that he was now "sorry" for, to figure out why they happened and how to not have them happen again, he took this as an insult and would be enraged that I was so unforgiving. To him, "sorry" meant that we could never speak of it again, and it was as if it had never even happened.
+Melting Clocks I stated facts based on observations. You jumped to assumptions represented as facts. So, don't bother replying again. Unless it's to insult me to make yourself feel better, and you won't need a reply, then by all means; I will not be replying anymore to you because a fact - less discussion is as useful as talking to a moss covered wall.
+TheTechAdmin That is pretty normal, to check if you don't have bird shit on your hat and so on I suppose. The true narc mirror staring - that is another story man. I've seen it many times in my life. What I've seen - the narc gets mentaly destroyed somewhere, his ego gets injured - he then proceeds to stare at himself in the mirror for extended periods of time like posing, checking his muscles, his whatever... until he get's back to his super-inflated ego state and is back to business... seeing that chills me to the bone sometimes, trying to imagine what must be going on in their heads... it's really a very very sad disease, they are like snakes... feeding on anything weak enough they can catch and kill, but anything stronger and they run like hell...
+Melting Clocks The amount of bragging you're doing right now, as well as the fact that you took it more than once means you cheated, lol.To take it more than once, when the questions don't change, to get a different result, can only mean you were not honest, or not honest AND trying to get a low result.But yeah, someone who would naturally get a 3, wouldn't have said what you said.
+TheTechAdmin Especially when I answered abou tlooking at myself in the mirror; because I do. Mostly to make sure I i don't have food stuck in my teeth or something similar.
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