How to overcome rude comments Videos

What do I do when these manipulative people won't take no for an answer and rouse the people around them to all gang up on you and start belittling you, shouting and screaming and telling the person that they are no good and aren't respectful, and physically prevent the person from leaving? What do you do when those people are your parents? What do you do when they scare you so bad you cry, then tell you, "Don't you dare cry and make me feel guilty." I can deal with gossips, but not this.

I was at a restaurant and the lady who put the food in the bag got our order wrong. They forgot half the stuff. I thought "hey they are pretty busy maybe it was just a mistake! It happens all the time" I go back in the restaurant giving an apologetic smile and say "sorry but we ordered 2. 10 piece chicken nuggets" I show the receipt and she said "sorry 'bout that" I go on my way. My aunt sees another thing they missed so I go back in and say "I'm really sorry about this but we were supposed to get two of these" I show her the receipt and she gets rude. " look I KNOW I put the other one in there." " I'll go and recheck but I don't think you did" I bring the bag in and say "you can check this and I will bring the other if you want" She starts loudly saying off the names of the food and we get to the bottom of the bag and- no sandwich. She started getting all sassy like and gave me a new bag with the food in it. I told her I can put it in my bag and she gave me this offended look. I quietly took my food and walked off. As I walk of she Yelled to her co workers "I KNOW THEY TRYING TO RIP US OFF" I offered to let her check the other bag. My voice was never raised. I didn't use any sass. I calmly smiled and told her what was wrong, and I was believed to be ripping them off. I'm never going back there

Ms Fisher I agree with u that we ought to give people the benefit of the doubt as that is posetive mentality

I used these tactics you talked about here, at work, I found it makes my day less stressful. Thank you, thank you! 

I love your videos, they're so simple & easy to understand. I'm glad I found your channel.

Alexa you always give great advice in your videos. And in such a convincing way ;-) 

It sounds like you have a very deep well of patience. Wish I did! But it's worth at least taking a deep breath before reacting. Thanks!

One day I was mad at this girl named Heaven King and I like this boy but she said she was going to beat my ASs and I said I see u want to fight people bitch and she told the teacher and she lied on me and I got in trouble for the shit that she started and she is an ugly ASs new girl and she started in 2015 and she is a hoe because she went out with 4 boys all ready 

fuck you

There is SO many ppl that are fake in my school!

YASS!! LOVE DIS ;D

Not to resurrect a very old thread here, but I can most definitely relate to this, Marie. Had an aunt and grandmother who were like this, and they were VERY difficult to get along with due to their inquisitive and conniving nature. Personally, I'd like to add that if anyone in your family ever asked you what your job is then that's okay so as long as they don't ask you full-on details about your job like how much you make an hour, what's your salary, where your job is at, etc. To me, those are the kind of people you can't trust even if they're related to you because once they know "too much" about you, they'll automatically think they're entitled to your life unless you stand up and lay down the law. Just saying.

I don't hate anyone, but when people block me I perceive it as a final hate and that even if they will unblock, we will not be friends at all. Even in real life. And, if they will apologize to me, they will see no charity from me. It's very rude to block someone who tries to be rather nice to someone. Prior to block, you have to think many times, do you EVEN want to block, or not? It may also lead to a thing I call "blocking wars", which is a kind of cyberbullying made by knowingly blocking people out of anger.

im an omnivore but not anti vegan, im not above having a vegetarian meal and ive had some b4 and enjoyed it, im just more inclined to eating meat but i support the choice to be vegetarian/vegan, im not against that but some vegans/veggers think there diet choice makes them better than other people and its fucking madness, im not assuming u do think that and i hope u dont but that is where i take issue cuz its a diet choice, no one is better for they what they eat or dont eat, its just a choice

This video is very helpful in a world of reality TV and people saying anything that comes to mind without consideration of others feelings. Wish we had classes in high school to handle these situations with Grace. Is there ever a time when you must leave a relationship (family or friendship) that has become a threat to your own self esteem? If so,how?

Well said! Love "the look.". I'm gonna steal that. In fact I'm heading for the mirror in the hall to practice right now. :)