Personality disorder boundaries Videos

Ty for posting, normal ,,,, what is normal?, BPD get advice/comments from people that are not NPD, you will get the answers. Thats the answer ..... we don't bite :) peace ...

I just had to say I love your videos! You are very insightful and clearly have experience with narcissists.

Ex narc was into submissive BDSM and was crap in bed which was of course my fault and not the fact he was a freak.

isn't it interesting how Christianity particularly continues to to call all this behaviour as sinful! i was a born again Christian but the older I get the more i see how Religion is used to control and degrade.

you know I wasn't sure and it is still hard for me to believe it, my heart doesn't' want to believe it, but you, are telling my story and and so is Cluster B & Me, my heart is increasingly beating and I cant stop the tears from coming out as I am writing. I am just waking up to this concept of Narcissists vs. Codependent. I spend the last 11 years with a man thinking I was building a future with him, although a very empty ugly future by the way things were going. I did not not know what was going on, only that I felt rejected, l not very attractive around him, not validated. Until one day last year I caught him watching porn after rejecting me and lying telling me he was not longer into porn. Then when I caught him, typical he said he was doing it for me, SAY WHAT? and I could not make sense of what was going on. I battled him and battled him and just could not understand how this man that used to be gentle and caring at some point( although emotionally neglectful but I did not know that) could go through such a change. At a point, I felt lost, not knowing the man I have been sharing all this time, he was not responding to my feelings. Literary I was kneeling on the floor not knowing what to do . I would look at his eyes and not see who I thought was my partner. I could not even looked at his eyes. Once I wanted to go talk to his mom and when I went for the door, so did he and he pushed me back, I fell because there were some of my stuff in the middle of the way , literary , I am messy but still he pushed me hard enough. But to look at my self on the floor and not seeing a Flickr of worry trough his eyes or face, not even the hand of the man that vowed to protect me and be by my side for the rest of his life, and instead he proceeded to to tell me it was my fault because my shit was in the middle, that was some scary weird moment. One month After that after that I had one night terror, with him were he turned around and he had this ugly angry face, that Ive never seen before, and he pushed me, I fell down. I got up screaming running and just like I was screaming and running in my dream I woke up screaming, crying and I literary had to run out the door crying, and be outside for a while until I calmed down I was still with him then .He could never admit or understand what was so wrong, it is just porn. And sure enough he went through metamorphosis. Not knowing what was going on just knowing that I needed a changed, I move out thinking we would work through things. Until September we decided to go to the therapist and she mentioned it. First time I've heard. Then he stopped going tO the therapist and he would not call me for two weeks if we got upset, he starting yelling at me whenever I tried to talk, but yet he was using the money from the bank account. On December the 27th, I decided no more, but it is sooooo fucking hard . It is haaaard to accept that my past, my present and the future were not real . Some scary shit, I am still back and forth. I am in so much pain. I always knew that there was something wrong but I always hoped we were gonna work it out, but I was always thinking on the man of the first year, the one that made me feel good and beautiful and cared for and then proceeded to do the opposite. He left me on Sunday crying, shaking AND I STILL WANT HIM TO COME BACK!~! seriously, I MUST BE ALL KINDS OF FUCKED UP

i knew a mother who bragged about the size of her son's thing at least twice, while we waited for the elementary school bus. i felt embarrassed for him. i thought his mother was sick in the head, and more sick for being so braggy about it,( i think that is what lack of boundaries is) the only person who had that right was the boy himself.GROSSSSSS, ABUSIVE

i just wanna be normal. i want to focus on my studies and not think about food. i want to get on with my day and not think about food. i wanna watch my fav tv show n not think about food. i want to be around people & enjoy their company and not think about food. i wanna be able to be around people. i went to a wedding last week - anxiety got so bad.. i ran out of their & sat on the stairs for over an hour. when did it all become like this :(.. i dunno if my ocd makes things worse, always cleanin

Brave girl with a really hard subject. In my experience the SocioNarc, was more about insulting themselves in private..as not being good enough- but, out in public they were selling what they wished they were. It didn't matter if you complimented them or not, they didn't believe you could love them for who they were, and as a result they couldn't love you...for who you were, nor believe your sentiments. They think others have a public mask on, as they wear one. A house of mirrors..what a mess to try and make sense of..

Thank you excellent vlog; my ex narc of almost two decades who was very violent loved himself soooo much it was not funny, and he told me when I first met him that when he was married to his first wife who was a very large lady he had to think of another woman to well you know so he could perform...

These are empty individuals.

Great topic, my narc flame had to have me buy new clothes, 6 inch stalettos, get a boob job.... and then I was supposed to blow him because that is what all women should do...we have never had sex,,,, I showed him how I looked in real life and he got up ran out the door ad through the fence, he then turned around and said "ICKY"-- he a 60 year old man--GOOD GOD!!

I really appreciate a honest woman. Thank you. I am currently engaged in no contact with a npd woman. Thank God I am recieving this info. She left a voicemail last night. Normally i would've been crushed. Not now.

The very same holds true in homosexual relationships. Just lived (barely) through it.