My story:
I'm a 20 year old autistic African-American male who just recently moved to
a ghetto and sketchy neighborhood before graduating high school in June
2013, and what I am currently struggling on finding some friends who are
like me, loves rock music, playing racing games and Smash Bros., good at
drawing, planning to be a future animator, loves anime, even DragonBall Z,
and also a "brony". Yes, I'm a brony. Fluttershy is best pony.
Anyway, since I moved in 2013, I felt like I just went to a wrong path of
no return with depression because of the location I'm in right now, and I
tried to attend to gatherings, but the problems are that my parents don't
feel like driving, the gatherings are distant, I have uncontrollable
anxiety during long trips, maybe it's because of my weight I'm planning to
lose, and I have to pay for Uber to get there! But, I never stopped there.
Last couple of months, I attended to brony gatherings and other meetup
groups, even my first brony convention. Those were the most amazing days of
my life, but something's still making me feel empty and loathing inside of
me. It could be the fact that I should've asked for their phone numbers to
keep in contact with them so we could hang out, but it's not just that,
it's also because I have college near to my house, and I kind of hate it
there. People in my college are 100% "hood" material. By that, I mean
people who sags their pants, smokes weed, and say "nigga" all the time. I
do focus on my studies, but afterwards I still feel the growing depression
inside of me, waiting for it to grow even bigger than the usual amount. But
in 2016, I am praying for a change in my life. Not only after next year
will I move out of my negative and depressing neighborhood, but I will move
back to my old location and get a job at Hot Topic and also gain some
friendship with people I know I can trust! These tips will guide me to get
some friends, as long as they don't do drugs or drink alcohol, and act like
a "swagfag," with their "dank" language and their rap music and their
stupid clothes. Yes, I know I shouldn't judge them, but to me they're just
a bad vibe around me. One day, my day will come, and my friendship will
bloom like a flower.
It's sad that I actually ask people to be my friend. They say yes and we
start talking. ITS SO BORING. I moved to a new place and I have a dirty
sense of humor. Basically I have no friends just people I talk to so I
don't seem like a loner.
I do have a bestfriend at school and a few other friends . But i feel like
i dont need REAL CLOSE friends ... I just want to know more people because
it makes me more confident,happy,socialized .. But everyone have their own
friends ...
Awesome video! I just moved from California to Colorado and started my
junior year in a completely new place. I left a lot of great friends behind
and have had troubles finding friends in my new place. I really took each
piece of advice to heart and plan on putting myself out there more.
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+NotMat i honestly wish you the best of luck in making new friends. Well if you're actually looking for some detailed advice, i suggest you to read the book "how to win friends and influence people" google it, it's got some really great stuff and has helped me a lot in socializing. Trust me i know reading books can be quite boring and you'll need to invest a lot of time in it, but, if you're reading about the subject matter that you seek to gain valuable knowledge from, it can be quite rewarding!
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What?! No! Of course not! Have a field day you loveable sociopath, you. Perhaps...with these secrets of friendship-making...nobody will notice your gaping lack of true intimacy and ethics! Good luck!
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I assure you and everybody reading this post...it won't. Especially for youtube-type people. Being yourself is the absolute worst thing you can do to make friends. Be literally ANYBODY ELSE...and you may have a shot. It will take effort and practice creating a faux persona that you cling to in desperation to find meaningful human relationships...but it is worth the lies and self-degradation. :-)
Thanks WS. Wow, is the first time William Shakespeare give me an advice. I admire you...But seriously dude, that end to Romeo and Juliet? After three days? And what about Hamlet? What was running through your head?Anyway "Shall I compare thee to a summer day?" is one of my favorite quotes, nice work..
Do this stuff to get close so it not weird when you talk to them and then make the first move. Just don't wait until they find someone else or see you as a really close friend. Don't delay is my best advice.
+Milya SF I don't know what happened to your comment that you replied to me, but I will just answer it here :) I am an American girl and i love everyone just the same!!! :) iNCLUDing you, milya :) !!
+powherpuffable I always failed at making friends in school....May be because I'm Asian American...American girls like Caucasian and black men the most... :(
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help me iam from iraq we will move to us in a month my english is full iam
good almost cool can i make friends in school? like iam 16 so can i?.....i
get nervous when i talk to americans cuz i feel they cool ....so can i ? or
its hard.iam a christian so does it make it easier?
well i hope it works because I survived elementary school without frends or
a bff I decided to make some friends this year so wish me luck because I
never had luck with friends :(
+Ravine Ofer If this helps, I know the feeling. I have been there but I know there is always a friend that love us unconditionally, and his name is Jesus <3
well I once found out that my friend was going to a party. The problem is,
I asked her the day before if she wanted to go and hang out. She said that
she was grounded. the first lie. Well, I thought okay okay she is right.
Just before I'm finding out that she is going to that party. The day after
I'd asked her why she lied to me, she then says. ''You must learn something
sweetie, nobody likes you. You're awkward to be around with. Nobody wants
to be with you, okay.'' And that was my best friend since first grade. (and
now we are at the age of 21)
People really do change so much like holy shit. This girl i knew in second grade used to tell me that eating pork was bad (religion wise) and told me to stay away from it. And she had such a sweet and gentle voice. But now in high school, she smokes and does drugs.
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hy my age is 16 my name is umer i like gaming very much i have xbox360 and
gaming pc ..i like to have chat with friends on internest i like animes
any one wanna be my friend
+Scott Mcallen XDD i like games too!! and i loovee anime XD im 14 and no friends!! LETS BE FRIENDS xD
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what if the person you are interested in being friends with is another
gender and they might take it the wrong way thinking you want more than
just friendship?
I work as a live in carer. I work most weekends from Friday afternoon til
Monday morning. When I do get a free weekend, I invite people to meet for a
drink, I only ask a couple of hours of their time and to bring a couple of
friends. The last time I did this I sent texts and emails to twenty five
people. Guess what the uptake was? Fuck all. Not one person out of twenty
five could be fucking bothered to give up two hours of their Saturday
evening. I used to hold dinner parties, I invited my friends, asking try
bring a friend, some drink or a dessert. Again no one bothered, or if they
did, I never got any reciprocal invites. My friends see me as their social
secretary, if I arrange anything they expect me to run around after
them,collect them and take them home.
Yes, I used to hold dinner parties at my house, as people used to complain they didn't have any money to go out!!! It was the same freeloaders who used to come along, but contribute nothing adding no value to the evening!!!!
I gave them a week's notice.Some ignored my message and did not bother to respond.Some were already committedSome pages yes, then flaked during the course of the week with pathetic excuses
Yes, I know them all personally and in real life. Some have been friends for years. It does seem that it is me who puts effort in for it to be ignored. Never mind. Onwards and upwards. I am used to farting against thunder
Well, I'm from Brazil and i wanna make new friends to practice my english
of course and i want to know about other cultures as well... If someone
wants to add on skype, holla!
Such good advice. But it's lot more theoretical than practical. For
instance, where do find the people? Once you initiate, how do you maintain?
And so forth but it's a good baseline
+LadyLikeBabyKay have you tried just starting a conversation with a question you might have? For an example: Where can i find this class? What is the assignment? What are good places to go out to eat around here?Something small like these questions can certainly spark up a conversation :)
+Erika Cupcake it's the initial forming of the friendship that I can't get my head around. Once the small talk has passed I'm usually good but I can't talk to people in the first place
Thanks Matt. I currently don't have any friends to hang out with or talk
to and it's a very lonely adult life. But, I really wanna go out, just a
little afraid to start by myself.
A lot of people feel this same way..lonely and wanting friends. Try and go out a bit more to places you enjoy and see if you meet people
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I need new friends because I am going to high school and my friend and I
will get separated because there are seperate classes (wood work, science
ect.) And in high school there will be "groups" and I don't want to be that
one person who just sits near a tree and plays in their laptop (also a boy
who has a crush on me will be their, I NEED BACKUP)
Holy fucking shit.... Shit shit shit shit! I'm going to a new school and I
don't know ANYBODY there... Who the hell am I going to sit with for
lunch...
If you try to do this at college in new york, they would look at you like
you are out of your mind to even talk to them. This only works at may be in
the west coast.
i feel like anthony was here for ages but yet i think they are not copying eachother at all because literally bc they are flamboyant that makes them copy eachother?
I'm starting high school and I'm so scared because at the open house
everyone was like in there friend groups and I was akwardly starring there
by myself (I'm a girl)
I'm not the only one obsessed with that line. I've commented this on so many videos.
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Thanks for the helpful video's you make, I really wish I can meet you in
person.Also I've never really spoke this to anyone but I have struggles
with socializing with people with my stupid anxiety, I'm afraid to talk to
and even make eye contact with them and I get depressed thinking about it
every night.Specially this one person I really want to get to know, when I
try to make eye contact with her I think the only way of explaining it is
like trying to stare at the sun but it's to bright which makes me want to
look away, like me having fear of making eye contact with her so I'm taking
notice of her but I'm looking at everything exept her.And I realize now
that I'm not afraid of making a conversation or looking at her but I'm
afraid that I would cause an awkward moment that would affect the way we
think of each other so the video's you've made has really helped me.I
turned 14 like 2 weeks ago if that was interesting to know.Anyways I love
your vid's and "Stay well, stay healthy, peace..." :)
Wait wait one more thing, are you American or British? :P
This video about Fear reminds me of the Salem Witch Trails and how the
villagers Fear led to the killing of innocent people. The court would say
"if you do confess. You will be hanged but if you do not Confess you will
not be hanged. But at the end of the witch trails pretty much all the
accused and innocent died.
Jhon Procter said he wasn't a witch but they didn't believe him so he was hanged. He taught them a good lesson on fear, love and compassion. Don't lie to save yourself when you have to do what's right, even when you did something bad.
+Chester Mwanza Thanks. Think if he was president the landfills of waste and islands of trash would be cleaned up. The planet and us as brings on this planet would be much better off. By beings I mean all species including aliens or exterterestrial beings
Hello im. A girl too lol. Where do you live are you from marina cuzz if you are we could meet up i love nature too im always running and adventours. I think i spelled that wrong. :o