How to stop ignoring my crush Videos

Right now the person I'm talking to tends to ignore me a lot, but suddenly she will text me and talk for ten minutes, then ignore me the rest of the day. What do I do?

Hi Marie! Im begging you for some good advice! ... I have a new boyfriend, we've been together just for a month, however the relationship we have its good. He is 36 and Im 33. The problem is that I have a lot of garbage in my head. I come from a family where women are emotionally abused, and I think it may be the reason why I feel so confused. My boyfriend is very good, he is most of his time with me, he calls me all the time, he treats me right. But I can't trust him, Im so scared that he could hurt me at any moment that I can't enjoy what he is giving me. Is feels awful! I feel guilty for not taking what he is giving me as I should and just be happy and fall deeply in love. Something in my head keeps telling me that its a dangerous situation and that I shouldn't let myself go. Don't get me wrong, I take care of him and he is very happy with me, he doesn't know about this fear of mine. On the other hand, every time he makes a mistake I loose control and I freak out and I want to leave him like a little child would do. At the same time, Im so scared to loose him, because he has been the only person in such a long time who has been so sweet and good at me. So, why I can't enjoy this? How do I do to control my fears? and how I stop feeling like I have to give him EVERYTHING so he won't go? Should I talk to him? Im miserable, I can't hardly recognize myself. I used to be confident, strong and great for falling in love. COULD YOU PLEASE, HELP ME? Thank you.

My case is : We are freshmans in University and she is from my group. At the begging i really didn't though i could have like this girl, but with time i really started liking her. And everything was so good we talked all the time she even said that we have a lot in common, we laught together all the time and then suddenly she started ignoring me and i believe i didn't do anything wrong. The last day before she started ignoring me i even walked her to her home and i think i made a mistake. I said that i have work in her direction so i can walk her home. And after that day this ingorance started :( I am really bad at this i tried to show her i like her without really saying it, couse i am bad at this flirting, dating etc. I am a bit shy to tell her directly " i like you ". One more think she said i am the male version of her which i think ment we will be very good friends but nothing more, but then why she started ignoring me :(

hey Marie I wanna know something. see I really like this guy 2 years older than me and he lives so far away from me about 3 hours drive away and we kinda contact each other through social media and that's it. I have never met him before. We've been flirting quite a while but lately he doesn't wanna talk to me but I don't dare to ask him why cos im scared he may never talk to me again. And I don't wanna take the risk cos he's quite a sensitive person. and gets upset easily and not to mention its very hard to please him as well

I like a girl but she ignoring me with every thing

I was talking to this guy for three months.. it was long distance though so it was hard not being able to be together.. then one day he randomly stopped answering me.. I only sent two text messages.. he ignored them both and he never ignores me... I'm wondering if I should text him another time and ask if he has an issue with me and to please met me know? if he doesn't respond I know to move on... but how are you gonna say you like and care about someone and then just one week go cold? he could atleast give me an answer as to why he doesn't want to talk.. perhaps he lost faith in us being together, i said I would come down to his area and be with him but I need time to save.. he just has no patience. wants everything in his time range.. it's truly mind boggling Marie. I won't look crazy or anything if I message him to demand an answer will I? I really dislike creating conflict.

Point blank, they are bunch of cunts that go after meat heads with money in the bank that will fuck over them atleast with 5 or more women through 10 years.And left with 3 kids. I don't have a attitude with women. It's just the way Life is with most of them. It's very ugly that's because I'm not have the right clothes or vehicle, they treat me I'm like a piece of shit. Intelligence don't mean shit too me, if you don't have Common sense, they usually are nothing but breeds with looks and bullshit Degrees from Colleges. LOL

I liked this girl a lot but after I confessed to her recently, she's been ignoring me and even avoiding me. I need some advice.

My crush isn't like this. He flirted and told me he liked me 2 weeks ago, then now he's ignoring me and talking to another girl. I don't know if I did something wrong by hanging out with someone he hated or talked to other boys (which I didn't).

hey Shallon , my crush did very strange things to me, he looks all the time at me in the class and he has seen my boobs and he squeezes in my butt and when we talk he look right into my eyes but since he has a girlfriend he ignores me like i do not exist please help me why does he do that ? sorry for mij english i'm from Belgium oh and i'm 13 xxx

Dear Shallon, my crush unfriend me on Facebook and i did not talk to him much. what was he thinking...i did not stalk him and talk much because i did not want to be creepy. what would you do if you were me. thank you shallon. maybe he is not that into me.

Shallon,I need your help So it kinda got round my school that I like this guy and at first he was horrified he did like me at all because he was popular and I was and I was a weirdo outcast also he just got out of a relationship like 2 days ago A few weeks later we started talking and realised we had a lot in common we start to become friends and he showed signs that he liked me other girls didn't like this especially this one called May who doesn't like me She make up stories like 'he said he doesn't want to be my friend anymore' or 'your not part of the squad cuz we don't want your drama' But then he got a GF (one of May's friends) right before summer break and he acts more distant but when we do talk he acts like he likes me I'm so confused it's like he can't make up his mind or something Sorry for it being so long but I felt the need to tell you the whole story

Shallon, there's this guy who asked my out and after i said yes he seemed so happy and so excited to see me... But during the actual date he was behaving really strange and quiet and it was really awkward. Why is that? Did i do something wrong? Should I go out with him again?

My crush apparently likes me back but he talks to everyone except me! Why?

i am 19 and live in india....i saw your videos on youtube and i am a your fan. i really dont know how to begin or is it even the right way......but here it goes. i have a crush on one of my guy friend but never said about it to anyone but one day he comes to o me and says that he likes be. i would have been too happy to say yes but his sentence was not yet complete. He said that he likes me but is having a mixed feeling about another girl also and that he is really confused. This girl is a common friend and we (in a group of 8 people) hang out together. At that time i didnt told him about my feeling, just said that it will be better if you'll clear out your priorities. Later he decides that he wants the other girl. but the tricky part is that this girl is in a long distance relationship and loves her bf enough. when he confessed his feelings for her, as expected he was turned down. She has no interest in him what so ever. i think that maybe he still have feelings for this other girl. What should i do?

Ok... so this guy I kinda like he told me I am hot, cute and all that. But than last night he told me he has a gf and was kind a jerk about it... what do I do? I am so confused.. :/ he was so nice and sweet towards me but now its like he is mad at me for something.. we talked all the time but now he comes up with excuses on why not to text me.. I never did anything to him. What do I do??

Hi Shallon! I have a question. There's this guy I like but I don't know if he likes me. He sometimes asks if I need help with reaching anything cause I'm short. He talks to me at least once a day, but it's short. Oh and sometimes calls me by my nickname that I don't really like. What does this mean?

My crush and me was BESTIES when were young (everytime my mom tries to take a pic and he always tries to go in the photo). But as we grew up, he doesn't talk to me but he always stares at me. (Once we played hide and heek, he purposely catches me all the time). +we are not in the same school+ Does he like me?

#winggirls PLZ HELP, I have this Huge crush on a guy I know, we went rock climbing an he said he really wanted to "buddy" climb with me,so we did, twice. Then he asked me how big my hand was and held his to mine. Later we went to make pottery, and I helped him with the lines on his Spider-Man mug, afterwards we had lunch, our parents were there, but he sat right next to me, and I have him an invite to my 13th b-day and he immediately said he would be there. Later we went to a place called "flight" which is a trampoline house, we played several games of dodgeball and he always protected me, but if he missed he pelted the person that got me out as hard as he could. Later we went bowling at the same place we met, but his computer name was senpai, then we went to his house and played some video games, then went to the park where we played truth or dare (nothing bad) and he insisted on carrying me, but then out of nowhere he started talking about his GIRLFRIEND and the next time they were going on a date, at which point I obviously wanted to go home. Later, at my b-day ALL of my friends were raving about him and giggled when he walked up, although one of them wanted to punch him because she was the only one I told about the girlfriend thing, and he was texting Rose, his girlfriend, like the whole party, then out of nowhere comes, again, the next-date talk. I'm homeschooled and attending a co-op with him this year and we don't have any of the same classes, I also haven't seen him since my b-day. Do you think he was just trying to make me jealous, or was he leading me on? PLEASE HELP!!!!!

hey can u guys please answer this, i really need advice

So me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost ten months. But a few months ago things started going downhill. We talked about it and he told me what I needed to change so I changed. But when I tell him what I think he needs to do he gets angry and ignores me. I tried to tell him again and I tried to apologize a few days ago and all he said was that he felt distant. Idk what to do!? He never txts me or calls me we don't hang out like ever. I offer to go out and do stuff but he says he's always busy. And I think he's starting to like another girl we know. He likes all her posts and leaves cute comment on all her stuff...i don't get that. I don't know what to do...I've tried everything with him. He hasn't talked to me in 3 day:(

Soz but I know this is a gf bf thing but im only 11 and my friends have been very mean to me especially the new friends and its like they are stealing my friends away from me what should I dooo help please today I cried alot and I am feeling depressed my confidence has gone and also I have got exams I cant tell my teacher I am alone and stressed out and the new friends call me names like drama queen annoying four eyed freak is this bulling or is it just nothing please tell me please

Please help me and make a video ASAP!! I'm a senior in high school. And I like this girl. But we don't know eachother and I don't have her for any classes but do see her around school. I don't know how to approach her, what to say, and when to approach her! Please make a video for me and lemme know when it's up. Thank you and God bless man!

so there's this guy who likes me.(I can feel it.

no..if a guy ignores it means its over or he is not interested

This guy that I've been having a crush on for 3 yrs now is so confusing. Every time I'm around him he always ignore eye contact with me. He even some times go a different route that passes by me in the hallways at school, and not once does he look at me. And hes such a slow walker when he does that. He doesnt even look at anything in particular to distract him. It's weird cuz he always glances an looks at me in the mornings. He is shy tho so that might be something. im also shy myself so that means im defiantly not going up to him. But basically I have no idea if he likes me -_- its driving me crazy!

I became sort of friends with this guy at my church. We fort friendly at least. Then I started noticing he was looking over at me a lot, and we would get eye contact across the room, and he would always be very nice and say it's nice to see me and telling me to get home safe. Just a really NICE guy. But generally nice to everyone, so I can't really tell if he likes me more than others.. But then why does he stare and look at me all the time and make sure I'm ok all the time. And go out of his way to talk to me. I figured he likes me. But then.. He went on a trip for a week. Since he got back he doesn't look at me , and doesn't seem to care if we even say hello or not. He just stopped. Everything. Right when I thought I met someone who was a good friend who I could fall for, he just turns everything around and stops noticing my existence. Whyyyyy. What happened 

Man theres this girl at my work and im fucking shy to talk to her. Weve talked once because she asked me something. 

Hi...Hope you will be able to answer my question...What does it mean... A man, talks to everyone (in a group) giving eye contact, but when it comes to me, he very quickly looks away and carries on talking to everyone else... Yet at the same time, he appreciates my hello & goodbye kiss and hug.... Thank you for your answer...

I do this for both reason shyness and to get the girl.. Because women ego grows really fast and lose interest

or hes ignoring you because he already has a gf!

I literally acted like this once, I tried to make it seem like I didn't remember the guy I liked for things, I tried to ignore him or simply avoid him, or I simply did things like the list part on the video and I thought that by making him seem utterly unimportant I was completely hiding my crush, without realising I was actually making it extremely obvious xDDD

So does Ashly really have a crush on Andrew irl?

I hate that moment when u know ur crush has a crush on someone else.

I LITERALLY IGNORE MY CRUSHES I DONT KNOW WHY