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"A Beautiful truth that would only be disguarded by those who continue to
hate her and her children.. hahaha but rely on her" Isn't that something..
They do not see that they do rely and I have noticed that is because often
we give and do so freely without making "Them" ask for much of anything
that they forget we are not doing it because we have to but because we want
to, we care and it is in our nature.. UNGRATEFUL! That is what it is..
These people have nevrve but 1 day they will find out.
Being a single mother is not easy and the only reason you hear them speak
out about it is because we/they are shunned as if they did not stick around
and play their part when everyone else walked. It is just like any other
situation when you put someone on the defense they will defend, it is not
about bragging or no pity party but has everything to do with standing up
for ones self and holding their head up high in a world that looks down on
you without knowing your story so please... Spare me!
Vont- (even tho I am not sure I still believe that) regardless if he is
around or not. A lot of children end up hating their mother as a result to
that bitterness and for various different reasons. Of course I get upset at
the thought of how things went down but at the end of the day, I am very
happy being a mother and my job is done whether he is here or not so there
is no reason for me to be mad enough to instill that in my child. I love
him way too much to do something I know will hurt him.
I didn't grow up in a house with no man/father neither did my mother or her
mother poems like these get the most attention just like single black
mothers get more attention than those with a spouse sending the inadvertent
message to the rest of general society that all black men leave their
offspring behind every time I hear something like this I face palm and
think what about me my mom and dad struggled for us they didnt even like
each other but didn't get a divorce or split until my youngest
NEVER heard that before, that is something new.... Only thing I can see
someone getting angered as is if they do not have a father and you are
throwing yours in their face as a way to say that you were bought up better
because of it or something like that... Other than that? I have no clue..
Sounds stupid to me. I am a single mother but I had a father who was the
best man I have ever met so I can not relate to that, I can only speak for
myself and the people I know and I NEVER heard of this.
I am not really sure who this guy is to be honest I just stole it lol
Speaking for myself as a single mother, I absolutely do not tell my child
that I am his father nor do I claim or try to take the place of his father
even in his absence and do not even speak ill of him for the exact same
reason you named... I see too many men walking around with chips on their
shoulders so although I am honest with him that his father may not be
returning, I let him know that he is still loved
Lastly, the reason I posted this and actually like it was more so because
single mothers take lots of heat even though they are the ones who stuck
around and took responsibility and this gives some positive feedback. Also
because it is a breath of fresh air to hear a man speak his truth knowing
that I am raising my son and to the best of my ability and he too will be
able to look me in my face with those same eyes and admire my efforts just
the same because I do it all for him.
I'm glad he loved it and knew that it was certainly not to bash, I seen a
different message within these words and I being a mother who is currently
raising my son alone I love the fact that this man was able to find joy in
such a situation and appreciated what his mother did for him instead of
turning around and blaming and hating her........ I work very hard so my
son can also see that regardless of him missing a father things weren't so
bad.
Sys I said I am ridiculed for having a father "casual conversation" so by
mentioning my father I am some how attacking them so then is your advice to
me to deny my fathers existence so as not to make these woman feel
threatened ? And if they feel threatened what is it that they perceive as a
threat ? Do single mothers take it personally when someone talks of a
family dynamic that's seen as positive in our society?
DA QUEEN OF HEAVEN..Let the whole world from the highest to da lowest
redeem themselves.. by proclaiming what was taken and hidden from the
masses.. Sis Soul.. eye embrace this truth wholeheartly and so does my dad
who watched this video and loved it.. A Beautiful truth that would only be
disguarded by those who continue to hate her and her children.. hahaha but
rely on her..hahaha..LOVE IT..
Yeah that looks/sounds like Joshua Bennett (only his voice is deeper here
for some reason) & he's known for doing these "uplift-black women" poems
(such as "10 Things I Want To Say To A Black Women"). Though I don't agree
with people callling single mothers "a father" this was a relatively
well-done poem. 10 Things I Want To Say To A Black Woman (in my opinion)
wasn't.
I can not be concerned about what this certain audience will think about
the poem because 9 times out of 10 they have waaaaayyyy more things to hate
and trip on black fathers about... This particular poem is not going to do
much. If that is this mans reality why shut him up from expressing himself
just to appeal to other people?
Then don't watch my older videos then LOL, I uploaded a scathing review of
the poem last year, as I found it to be pandering & non-genuine, but to
each their own....To be fair, poetry is not a medium I have any particular
interest in or passion for, so maybe I can't judge much, but I do find
Bennett to be talented regardless.
Ummmm this says nothing about "Black" fathers but just fathers period. Not
my fault that majority of the ones missing tend to be black and I had a
father who was my best friend and I am not complaining about this poem....
I get what you are saying but that is not what this poem is about, you are
looking too far into it...
That's Joshua Bennett isn't it? Anyway, I really hope single mothers aren't
walking around telling their kids that they're their "fathers" or saying
that mantra in their presence....They might "mean" well, but it really does
nothing but plant seeds of bitterness in a kid's heart.
Btw, do you think single mothers "take alot of heat" online or in offline
American society in general? Because while I would agree about online
forums, offline nobody really goes in on single mothers except Ann Coulter
& Tom Leykis and they have many MANY vocal detractors. JMO
Sibling left the house oh but when I mention this in casual conversation I
get booed or told nobody wants to hear that I've come to believe at 45 that
the average blackwoman would prefer to be a single mother so she can enjoy
her pity party at the expense of all blackmen
Very moving and loving. Thank you for sharing. I would love to see you do a
video asking all people who were raised by their mothers to post a comment
saying 'thank you, Mom.' this will let the world see that there are single
family homes were the mother is appreciated.
If i who in my opinion just glanced at the poem came to the conclusion I
did just imagine what someone who were listening to this poem with hate
could get come up with and in my opinion also a black man reciting the poem
screams black father to a certain audience
OOOOOOO I saw that... Doesn't look like the same guy but I loved that other
poem actually... AWESOME!
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