That wall makes a lovely backdrop, this vid had a lovely vibe too, felt
like you were coming from a good place.
My feelings on the self and the person are that we use 'me' to describe the
whole sum of our character and experience, good, bad, and the things we
hide. I think this is why we judge ourselves more harshly, because we hold
on to those negative things, even if the entire world has forgotten about
them.
Our person is more a selection of those traits and experiences that we
choose to present to the world, sometimes consciously sometimes not. We get
trained early on, taught what a bad person(a) is, and what traits to reject
from using in our person(a).
I guess I have always been a little more aware of this than the average
person, as I have had to construct a persona almost from whole cloth, to
conceal the 'me' that I was taught to be ashamed of.
I enjoyed watching this, the place you are coming from in the vid really
resonated with me.
It is true that we all instinctively judge others as we interact with them,
we can not help it, making judgements about others and situations helps us
survive day by day. But I have learned through my own personal experiences
that it is a bit of a tricky business when forming let us say too sweeping
of a judgement of others in as much as one would invariably have to make
assumptions about the other person to do so, and often times those
assumptions may be incorrect. For myself I have found limiting that
judgement to specific behaviors during specific incidents is about as far
as I can safely go, and still be comfortable that I haven't over-confined
my understanding of that other person. People surprise me all the time, in
terms of how they can improve and grow, that is what I love most about them
:)
I wish we could have a thought experiment. You pick apart the actual
meaning of words. How they affect or mislead us. How people communicate one
thing while speaking another. I would love to spend time around you in an
experiment with no language. Maybe 12 people in a sealed bubble with no
language? I bet the right people could bring forth the lost universal
language.
The more forgiving I am of myself, the softer I am on others. It becomes
increasingly harder to judge others with cruel severity when I see the very
same errors in myself. Fix myself first before I go around lambasting
others.... I really enjoy your uploads. Very natural and genuine. A rare
thing to find in this whirled. :)
"Multiple personality disorder" .Some humans feed on others........thats
why its wonderful to see spoiled "ASSHOLES" everywhere...even small cunts
who have a pink blogg to worship there own shit thinking.LOL