How I Beat My Eating Disorder + 5 Steps to Overcome Your Biggest Challenges
I'm sharing my very personal story with you. My struggle with self worth, some pretty big family tragedies and a 6-year battle with food that bent and nearly broke ...
+Gillian Wong :( I'm so sorry to hear that. Know that even in the depths of your pain that there is this courageous, whole and healed women within you that can make it through ANYTHING. You will get through this, but you don't have to do it alone. Lean into the support of friends, family and the amazing organizations out there that exist to serve you through this time. Sending you so much love, Gillian.
I completely relate to the idea of stories! I thought I was the only one
who had that idea haha you are so uplifting and inspiring. Thanks you so
much.
@sumbarine "a Balanced diet of meat,vegetables,fruits,grains..." Whoops!
Eating the rotting carcasses of animals you torture is not balanced, is it?
That is an extreme form of eating disorder. Is it common? Yes. Is it
healthy? No way! "yes reward yourself at times with some ice cream or
apple pie" This is not sane to me. Why "reward" yourself with stuff that
kills you? I see people taking this approach and they are never fit, always
in a downward spiral of ill health and excuses.
"Physalogically?" Oh no she dit-nt! Anyway, when I am eating 100% healthy,
I do not have a problem over eating. I eat as much as I want, any time that
I want and feel great, never bloated, never hungry. When, however, I am
eating bad foods, fatty, starchy, sugary, I have trouble knowing when to
stop. So, I try to shove as many whole fruits and veggies in my pie hole as
possible. When I do that, the thises and thats about when to stop and how
many calories, etc, all fall into place.
@heidiheidi0 The way I understood it Andrea Cox was referring to eating
late at night: "When I come home at night, am I eating because I'm truly
hungry or am I eating because I had a rough day or because I'm lonely or
because I'm sad. Really tuning into that." It's best not to eat late or
before bed, but many people do. I believe Andrea was trying to say that
it's best to approach that issue by listening and understanding the cause
of wanting to eat at night.
@Mongodelight The way I understood it Andrea Cox was referring to eating
late at night: "When I come home at night, am I eating because I'm truly
hungry or am I eating because I had a rough day or because I'm lonely or
because I'm sad. Really tuning into that." It's best not to eat late or
before bed, but many people do. I believe Andrea was trying to say that
it's best to approach that issue by listening and understanding the cause
of wanting to eat at night.
@NvrTuLate "Funny how addicting the Standard American Diet is." Scary is
more like it. There is literally BILLIONS spent on flavor, food-science,
neurobiology, etc. to make that food addicting. That's one of the main
reasons there are so many refined/processed foods in the SAD - they're just
like 'designer drugs'... Refined carbs/sugars are now shown to affect
cannabinoid receptors much like opiates, etc., do. It is addicting, and
scary. Maybe even evil...
lol if you wait for hunger and thirst you re already severly undercarbed
and dehydrated. You re just not aware of it. If you carb up and hydrate up
you re will notice the difference. You feel amazing and have the energy of
person on amphetamine. You dont want to go back to normal, you dont wait
for hunger and thirst. You eat before the dehydratrion/undercarbed symthoms
begin.
@sumbarine "You overeat because your depriving your body of a particulair
nutrient" What is that? The essential B&J (Ben and Jerry's) Vitamins? That
is nonesense. People are gluttons, and want more more more, more
experience, more love, more sensation, more sex, more food. It sounds nice
though, and I am sure repeating it makes you feel good, but it is hogwash.
@sumbarine "If your vegan(& more than likely on a course to anaemia &b12
deficiency),yor body probably lacks iron,zinc" You really need to know what
you are talking about. All you are doing here is spreading ignorant
meaningless stereotypes. Do a little research and stop repeating something
you half heard Dr. Phil say.
Thank you so much for your honesty. I still think an eating disorder is
something so shameful, but hearing someone like you talk about it in this
way really gave me courage.
When someone says "accept your appearance", I always think "but HOW??", so
your advice about looking in the mirror and being neutral and not judging
was so helpful. And I love the analogy about how we don't try to hange our
shoe size - i never thought about it like that! You're so right!!
I needed this more than anything. Thank you so so much Lily for being the
voice that reminds me of myself. I love your "no bullshit" approach to the
eating disorder mindset and I love that you make me feel validated, while
at the same time educating and helping myself and others. I've recently
been struggling with all the weight I've put back on and it's been so hard
to keep eating as much as I know that I need to, and I just knew you would
have a video up about what I was experiencing. I appreciate you.
Biologically the effect of starvation on the brain damages the neuron
pathways between the brain and the stomach so it is physiologically
impossible to "listen to your true hunger". Thank-you again for this video
xx
I know you say you exercise a little but is it because your still
recovering from your eating disorder? I'm currently having the same
problem, I spent a year on a paleo style diet with excessive exercise which
absolutely destroyed my metabolism, I've been recovering for the last month
now on a HCLF diet and I'm defiantly showing signs of the common symptoms
of recovery (weight gain, mood shifts, fatigue etc) but even after eating
an abundant amount of food my energy levels are still very low, i can only
manage a light walk without me feeling tired at the end of it, it just
feels like my body is not responding to exercise like it used to and to be
honest I wouldn't be surprised after what i put myself through love your
channel btw :)
+Danny Francis I think definitely let yourself rest as much a you can and let your body absorb and digested all of the nutrients you're now feeding it, it took me a long time to start feeling the incredible energy you get from eating good food.. i think this may have been a result of my body using so much energy for recovery and healing. It is really important to let your body rest during recovery, especially if you dont not have much energy... you should never ever excise unless you want to and you feel like it. Also, make sure that you're eating enough!!!!!!
Lily I love you so much, and your straight-to-the-point videos. I still get
'mental hunger' and this reminded me to keep honouring it without feeling
awful for doing so.
Really well said, I completely agree! I'm going through the mental hunger
stage atm but I can feel it easing a bit so now I don't feel like I need to
eat every single thing on my plate if im satiated or don't desire it, its
such a good feeling! Love your videos btw :)
How To Overcome An Eating Disorder- by Lonnie Mackley
Practical guide on how to overcome an eating disorder including overeating, bulimia, and anorexia.
My Story With "Eating Disorders"
This is just a little bit about what I went through and what I did to get out of those times. Hope these tips are informational to anyone struggling, whether it be with ...
This sounds EXACTLY how I was! When I started lifting in college I
worked out with bodybuilders and they got me to train for a figure show. I
became soooo incredibly obsessed with anything I put in my body and how
much I could work out in a day. I read and researched anything and
everything about food that I could. I was never diagnosed with an eating
disorder but at the time I came across the term Orthorexia and definitely
diagnosed myself with that. It took me a few years now to get to where I
am; being happy and healthy :) Thank you for sharing this. I hope many
girls watch this and learn from your story!
I feel like I may be going through a touch of this, somedays I know I'm
eating too little and want to increase my calories for the long term but
I'm afraid of not being able to reach my fitness goals
Thanks again for sharing your story Josie. I recovered from a nine year
battle with severe eating disorders, and I can tell you that my life has
never ever been better. Anyone who sees this and questions their recovery,
I am living proof that recovery is possible. Take the first step, and
understand it is a journey.
In the past you said you gained weight at first with intuitive eating
right? Just now switching over, I feel I'm gaining weight but it's not like
I'm eating whatever I want. I'm prob eating less because of the fear of
gaining weight. I notice I'm falling back into the whole cardio bunny thing
bc of the same fear. How did you deal with things like this? I can't stop
trying to add up macros in my head. It's such a mind f@#$. I'm still eating
flexibly but now I feel guilty some days. So lost!