you literally just give the bestest advice ever, i can tell you had been
there done that....you are so dead on girl! Thank U! you are hilarious as
well!!!!!
+Darlene Naranjo its like you are talking to me....i have done all those crazy things!!!! it is hard....but now this dude is slowly creeping back to my life...i meam why now that i have regained my strength...its my fault we broke up though but i dont know...maybe theres a second chance here....i dont know what to dooooo
Here's our first "Ask DeLaurian" Question. Let us know what you think about this situation. Another LIFER may benefit from your perspective and experience.
So they ended their relationship because because she didn't have his full
attention in the first year of College? Not being a jerk but its college
(1) With all that college kids do, who has time to give someone full
attention? sounds like they made the decision to break up together. Let me
just say this from another perspective. when an 18 year old tells me
anything about their heart and love, I simply say: "you're trying to fly
commercial planes and you just started flight school. Many women at a young
age feel they are far more mature than men but a big part pf maturity is
knowing that you may not be ready for what you want. I think both men and
women are too immature at 18 just in too different departments. Just
because he moved on quickly shouldn't me he did something to her. she
assuming he had the other because he moved on. he could have just moved on.
Just because she wouldn't move that fast doesn't make him wrong. I stay hit
them books and learn who you're gonna be because that person will need a
different kind of love than what you're seeking right now. She needs to
just understand that every pair of nice looking shoes don't fit well.
As far as who's being chased... I love you ladies but it's not about who's
being chased. Its about ending up with someone that compatible with you and
loves you. How that happens, is up in the air. Many women are lonely
because they feel like the man HAS to come to them. Does a woman need to
chase a man? NO. A man doesn't need to or have to chase a woman either. Man
or woman... if you have a feeling, don't let old school ways keep you from
saying it. Just adding dialog Delaurian Love you babe.
+iAm CoolBeanz Hey Renny!!!!! Well thank you for watching! I appreciate ya! Trust me, I agree with you about the immaturity level...lol...However, I feel that no matter how young, if a guy decides to commit that he should put in the effort and attention needed to help a relationship develop and if he can't do that then he shouldn't commit. It's funny because guys at this age most times aren't even capable of this...lol... "Hit the books and learn who you're gonna be" YES YES YES! I also agree with compatibility being the important factor! I feel that when women don't know who they are, they make their mission about hunting for men. Then while getting to know him, they are always reaching out and initiating contact without receiving the same effort in return. I think the woman should observe his actions and match his effort. That way both parties are showing that the relationship is a priority.I looooooooooooooove your feedback and it's a pleasure having you bring that wisdom and man's perspective over here! Thank you so much! Love ya!!!
I am 22yrs old and I think EXACTLY like this! There are times when I think
i'm too old school or uptight,so its refreshing to see a fella gorgeous
sister that has the same mind set as me
Had to subscribe after this! Lol and ur hair is beautiful btw
+Erin Prinsloo Thank you for subscribing! Welcome welcome! lol I'm so glad you're walking in your light and upholding your standards!!! Keep being an example! We need you! Thank you for the love!!!
I have went through this as well. The best advice I can give is to keep
yourself busy. Volunteer, hang out with family/friends, delete him and
block him from any and everything. Forgive him and forgive yourself. Take
time to find yourself and learn to love yourself all over again. Everything
happens for a reason and often times God places people in our lives that is
only meant to be there for a season. It is sometimes best to be along than
in a relationship because now you don't have to worry about the stress of
someone else. You're free to do whatever you please. Take this time to lean
about you, graduate from college, be successful in your career and
flourish. IF it was meant for you to be together, then God will make a way.
Trust God and put Him first and Pray for strength and pray for courage. He
will help you through it.
I fell in love with this guy that is about a year younger than me. He used
to be my best friend and treat me very well. I didn't have settled feeling
for him at the beginning, it was like a i like you then, not that much. He
told me that he was in love with me and since I had very bad experiences in
love with other people I didn't know whether to believe him or not, but i
gave him my time and i tried to be nice. We got very close and I gave him
my trust and from that I fell in love. Yet, he fell out of love because I
didn't tell him despite all the things I did and even allowing some
intimacy and giving him my trust. I am not over him and I tried to get him
back but he left me for someone else, who he now likes. I don't like this
girl and i wish he'd go for someone better for him. please help...
+Sarahi Sarabia I had a very similar situation, actually, except that I told him I loved him about a month after I realized. He didn't feel the same way then, but after about two years of us not speaking as much and him moving away he came back into town, said he was in love with me, and I told him I didn't trust that. He worked on convincing me and well, it all went very fast from there. I too gave out trust even though it was hard at that point for me. But, one day he just stopped coming around or talking very much. When I asked what was wrong, I received no reply. And then one night on FB it said he was in a relationship. Obviously not with me! So then he proceeds to tell me after I finally get him to talk about what happened, that he just didn't love me anymore. So, I was crushed. I still am. I guess what I'm saying is, I don't think it's your fault at all here, for not telling him. Sometimes, I don't know exactly what happens, maybe the other person forgets what they have with you, I don't know....but sometimes, they just...stop. Even if you put your all into it. I did. He still just decided out of the blue that he suddenly wasn't in love with me. It wasn't anything I did. And based on what I read here, It's nothing you did. Please don't blame yourself . And keep your head high, okay? He clearly couldn't see what he had.
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That's a tough breakup. I know how that feels- like you can't breathe...
But you can and you will because your kids need you and you deserve to be
happy. You will find happiness again- even more than you imagined possible.
I have another video that you should watch. I can't put the URL in the
comment, but it's called "You Deserve to Be Happy...w/ Laurel House." Allow
yourself moments to be sad, then think: "I miss your smile, but I miss mine
more..." then allow yourself to smile again. xx Laurel
You didn't sound like a dick ;) Actually, I did a video on how women should
apply the male mentality of getting over an ex! "Get Over Him Faster By
Acting Like Him." The link to that vid is in the video description of this
vid. I would love your opinion on it! xx Laurel
No offense, but it seems like you are giving yourself a pep talk...lol.
IDK, maybe cite sources of empirical data? You are really pretty and
shouldn't have a problem with guys unless bi-polar...lol. Wish you all the
best! Cheers.
I just re-read what I said. Didn't mean to sound like a dick. As a guy, I
see things differently. After a break-up, the first thing I think
is....NEXT!...lol. I'll go back to my round corner now. Take care.
Not giving myself a pep talk ;) BUT I have used these Get-Over-A-Guy
techniques in the past AND I help my clients use them to help get over
breakups and heartbreak (I'm a dating coach). xx Laurel
Dear QuickieChick, I wish that everything you said is a true....:( how to
deal with a break after 8 yrs and two kids (1 is a baby).... I feel like I
even can't breath.....:(
thank you Laurel... I will watch right now.... I'm glad that I've got my
kids, my lil happiness but in the same time is so painful to look at
them....xxx
"don't talk to that "bitch" that's gonna make you fat...." Are you saying
theres a problem with someone being a little fat and eating a punnet of ice
cream? ... It happens to help me a lot. Pshh I don't even know who you are.
This just proves how geo was embarrassed to be mexican as if being mexican
were a bad thing it annoyed me so much when before it'd hurt her to admit
like wtf geo. mexican people are great so much like Americans and French
and Indian and African American and Native American all people are living
on the same earth it's amazing how long it took geo to realize that like
she never wanted to admit her ethnicity with her own friends until years
later
your irritating it all depends on the person no matter if u want to admit it or not we are human but there are assholes that are not the same as everyone else everybody it different piece of shit or not
+Tec 9 thats totally different, that would happen everywhere actually im sure it would happen more in mexico since everybody is out to get you and the tiniest thing gets you killed
... You realize that Mexico was only a colony, right?Names like Martinez, Oriz, Zaragoza, etc.... Are all European, right?Spain, is in Europe, JUST LIKE FRANCE, lol. It's actually right next to spain. Their ppl look very similar.So, if anything you should tell her to rock a native name... BUT, she doesn't look native at all. She doesn't look Wetstern Erupoean, BUT, she looks French, Spanish, greek, Italian, as FUCK.And I don't mean "American Italian or French" I mean European wise.I dunno why you're so upset about this, lol.
either you dont know a lot of mexicans or you are one, i dont like to judge but every time i go to mexico people are just motherfucking jerks that have no manners. also connections through the mexico city airport is living hell for me nowadays
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@rose hayes ... yup... hit hard... reaaallllll hard :') ...a big thanks
goes to this mam right here for posting this. Very perfectly well said,
with such confidence and grace, can I marry you? Lol... seriously a huge
thanks, this hit me hard.