How to be okay with yourself Videos

I really appreciate your wise words. I have always second-guessed myself and feared the opinions of others. So thank you for the inspiration.

How is what you have to say even valid? You are not an ugly girl and never will be an ugly girl. You have no right to put yourself in the shoes of one. It's all in your imagination. For some of us it's a reality and our day to day interactions and our relationships with people remind us of it. For you it's all in your head. You will find a man who worships you and puts you on a pedestal because you are around a 6-7 out of 10. My husband doesn't do that because I am a 4 and he is only with me out of lack of choice. Any man who gets with me is with me out of lack of choice because he can't get someone who looks like you. Men like slim but curvy women and there is nothing wrong with your hair. I am glad you have seen that it's all in your head, because for some women it isn't, it's a physical reality that they are truly ugly and have poor genetics and a poor bone structure and it's not just the voices in their head it's the reminders they get from other people. Thing is no one else notices these things you feel bad about because you are not even ugly.

Why is it always someone that looks decent that say looks dont matter??? When you have a facial deformity...come back and tell us how your looks dont matter. Confidence, self esteem...none of that stops the rejection, lonely nights, lingering stares and laughter.

thank you for this but i just feel BAD that NOTHING can make me feel good about myself and i just HATE it

Thank you SO MUCH for posting this.I have a young friend that i love very much with weight and self esteem issues. She just turned 17 and does have medical issues contributing to her weight and it's hard to watch her put herself down and think she is less that she is. I was looking for inspirational pictures to send her and I Googled "love yourself" and saw a screenshot of your video while I was scrolling through the images. You are really pretty and you look a lot like my friend does, and I just started crying while watching it because I realized what a Godsend your video is. I myself am skinny so maybe when she sees this coming from someone more her size she can know it is the truth : ) again, thank you SO much

Loved this :) you rock!

A really awesome video about something super important (what do you mean Kathy filmed all those videos in one day noooooo >.>) I'm super glad i joined the SoHard family

Well now you just gave yourself away :p You're just a YouTube big sister and your subscribers can rely on your good advice. #proudfriend

Hey, I just found your videos and I am enjoying them! It's nice to see a fellow Arab/Middle Easterner... Just some background on me, I am Arab American with my dad being born and raised in Palestine and my mom is white American. I look a lot like you actually with light brown skin and curly dark textured hair which I had to learn to love these dark features as I live in a very white town where a lot of people here and in my family are blond/light brown silky hair, and white skin. Being in the minority can be tough, plus I have not gotten to know my Arab family as they don't live in America. I am glad that you feel more comfortable wearing glasses, I was born with low eyesight and I have worn glasses dice first grade! I can't wear eye contacts because the strong prescription eye contacts are so expensive! I just am being me and loving my mixed girl/Arab chick/ biracial/curly hair status level even if others think I'm "different" or a "loser." 

This is awesome :) I need more of this. Is there a part 2?

Here's a quote that I love and goes a little something like this "Be yourself, because everyone else is taken" I forget who said it but I love that quote.

Making my way downtown, walking fast , faces pass and Im home bound.... tinininin(head shaking).....gotta love Terry

Of course it's okay to be yourself, the problem is people won't except it.