My Diagnosis Story: Depression and Anxiety | #MHW2K15
Today's theme is "My Story" and today I wanted to tell you the interesting story of how I was diagnosed with depression and anxiety. I have heard through my ...
I'm not clinically diagnosed, but I do know that I suffer from several
different mental disorders. I have severe anxiety, depression, OCD and
insomnia. I'm scared to go to a professional about my issues because they
might claim that I'm making it up, even though I know that I'm not. I
understand what you meant by this video, but just because someone is
self-diagnosed it doesn't mean that they're just overreacting.
you should go to a doctor. they can help you get help. just so you know, there is nothing wrong with getting help. the doctors can help you ease everything. all of the bad feelings. i dont want for you to be sad or anxious or anything else :((
I just want to say I agree with most of this video buuuut.... everyone has
anxiety. An Anxiety Disordered is what you are talking about. Its basically
when someone ANXIETY LEVELS aren't normal. I just wanted to say this and
not hate on your video and that's really all I had to say!
I never wanted to go to the doctor to get diagnosed for depression but back
in 7 grade was when I started getting depressed my cousin who is the
closest thing to a sister tried to kill herself three times she went in the
mental hospital I thought I'd never see her again she came out not acting
like herself few months later my grandpa passed who partially raised me and
a month after that my brother moved out to where it was only me and my dad
at my dads house but since my grandpa passed he had to take care of m Gma
so much it was just me most the time.. I began to feel alone even when
people were around I'd cry for hours and hours not exactly knowing why and
now it's 2 years later and I still get depressed but I don't think I have
depression anymore I have anxiety though I got medicine for that
+Audrey Crader don't let this video confuse you. i do encourage you to please talk to someone if you ever think your depression is coming back even if you only have a few signs it very well can be. i love you! stay happy :)
I disagree with you, and I feel motivated to post it because I think
attitudes like the one in this video will simply encourage people who
suspect they have depression to continue doubting that their problems are
serious enough to warrant seeking help. I had depression for 4 years before
I was ever able to open up about it to anyone or get a diagnosis, and one
of the biggest factors keeping me from talking seriously about my feelings
was that I was unsure whether I was in "enough" pain to actually have
depression, and my biggest fear was that I would tell someone, they would
think that I was only seeking attention, and I would forever be seen as a
sad, selfish person. My family believes that depression is something you
cause yourself, they even called it "the most selfish disorder." I had no
close friends either. Needless to say, I felt trapped and terrified and was
full of self doubt. So, I tried to do things that would get people to offer
me the help I needed because I was too scared to ask for it. I found out on
the internet that your doctor is supposed to ask you about your mental
health if you lose 5% of your body weight, so I starved myself and went
from 115 pounds to 106 pounds by my routine checkup, but she didn't notice.
Whenever I felt the urge to self harm, I kept telling myself that if I made
a deep injury then people would be able to see how seriously in pain I was,
but I kept myself from doing it, and it would only make me feel more like
shit because if I couldn't seriously hurt myself, then I probably wasn't
really depressed, right?
So, for years I rather casually mentioned my feelings of depression to my
friends and family, casually expressed the desire to see a therapist,
casually hinted at my mental health issues but kept a happy tone so that I
could laugh it off as a joke if they judged me negatively. I was laughing
about it, but it was a desperate cry for help. The only thing I ever wanted
was for one person, ONE PERSON to stop and say, "Wait, are you serious? I
will help you." But no one ever did, because the problem is not the people
joking about depression, but it's the people hearing the jokes who don't
take them seriously.
Whenever someone makes a joke, no matter how casual, hinting at the fact
that they might possibly be feeling depressed, then it needs to be taken
100% seriously. You DO NOT know what they are going through, and often
times a joking demeanor is just a defense, because the person is too scared
to be serious. I guarantee that if someone makes a depression joke and you
stop and talk to them and say, "I know you sound like you're joking, but I
sometimes we joke about things we may really be feeling. Do you /sometimes/
wonder if you are depressed? I don't think you are crazy, and I'm here for
you. You can talk to me, and I will have no judgments. I want to help you,
so please talk to me," then that person will feel much better, whether they
are "just sad" or they have depression. And if they realize you take them
seriously, then they probably won't joke about it in the future. Remember,
it helps to ask questions, because then they only have to answer yes or no
and they don't have to work up the nerve to say difficult things like "I
think I am depressed." The response I described, in my opinion, is the one
that really comes from a supportive and non-judgmental place, where I feel
this video comes off as judgmental.
If you are reading this and you are questioning the validity of your
feelings, I am telling you, DON'T. Your feelings are valid, and no one can
tell you whether you are "just sad" or whether you really have depression.
2/3 of depression cases go undiagnosed, exactly for this reason that people
are afraid to open up because of judgment from others. Sometimes a
self-diagnosis can help you put a name to your feelings and problems, and
bring you a step closer to getting better.
All that said, please never flaunt your illness. This video actually comes
off as a bit self-righteously flaunting your illness. "Oh stop whining
about your feelings, I had an actual doctor tell me I'm sick so that proves
I have it worse than you bitch!" Sure, people joking about illness gives it
somewhat of a bad rep, but if you really truly just want to help people get
better, then take every single person as seriously as you would take
someone with a doctor's note, because that could end up saving someone's
life, and nothing in this video will really help anyone, except maybe it
will stop annoying the people who feel like they are special and have it
harder because of their illness and think that it's all a big competition.
It's not.
This is not about you being annoyed at other people, this is about people
genuinely suffering who need help. This video isn't helping anyone and is
not something that "needs to be talked about"--your attitude is already the
prevailing attitude and it's a bad thing.
Just because you don't have a diagnosis doesn't mean your sick. Take people
seriously, and care about them. Don't be judgmental one way or the other
when it comes to mental illness. That's all I have to say.
If you're reading this and need someone to talk to, feel free to message me
through Google+. Stay strong.
+Thatsprettiemuchit i said in the video that it doesn't mean that they don't have those illnesses. i don't mean to offend anyone. i was speaking about the majority of people nowadays that flaunt their illnesses that haven't been clinically diagnosed with and speak lightly of it. i'm sorry if i offended you or you took it the wrong way. i do want the people that think they have an illness to speak to someone and go to a doctor.
that can be done through running and a change of diet. That's if the person
can see that they are depressed, and want to do something about it, people
that can't see they are depressed they will run into problems in later
life, and will end up on antidepressants. But support and courage is often
a way out, if a love one is worried they can drop hints which could lead
them to understand they have a problem, it's a long hard process but well
worth the rewards if it's done right.
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+Haider Issa Sending me an email is best. My address is easily searchable on Google. (I avoid posting it in these comments out of the probably unfounded concern that it may further increase my already enormous volume of spam) I only have pdf versions of a subset of my videos, since many were created directly in Adobe Premiere and are extremely cumbersome to export into a printable format.
+jmacfarland1 So sorry, I'm just seeing this comment now! If you are still interested, email me, and I am happy to send you a pdf copy of the presentation.