I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months. The first couple months of our
relationship were great. We would see each other. He always said I was
beautiful and that he loved me (very much.) Now, he got "comfortable." He
never says he loves me. He's always saying he's busy or flakes out on
dates. He never compliments me or even tries to make me feel like I'm worth
something. For some reason, I never really changed my feelings towards him.
I still love him very much, but it also feels like I'm being torn by
holding on to him. I can't break up with him. It's too hard for me to be
honest.
Yeah, it's kinda silly, I know. But I can't.
UGGHH!!
+SuDDenLife Thxs and ya we have been hanging out more at school and last week he told me he loved me so im really happy i didn't break up with him i thought about it and i think he was just going through something at the time so Thxs <3
+LpsWannnabee 12 Is he really ignoring them? Well if he is, it does not seem very respectful to me. I see that your comment is 3 weeks old... Did it work out so far? Best of luck.I think I will break up with my girlfriend soon...
+Crotch Unicorn (Shadesphere) same thing I feel so heartbroken the thing is I don't want us to break up like I swear when we first started dating we would text every day before bed and he would say I love you and now he ignores my texts, tweets, dms and snapchat
other signs?
Partner using you
Partner verbally/physically abusing you
Partner making you feel terrible about yourself
Partner blaming you for everything
Shall I go on?
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+Natalie Hartzell But there is no solid proof. There are no pictures of him with another girl (or boy, I don't judge), so we can only go by what they say, and those conflicting views don't tell us anything except one of them is a lier.
+blueyedbeauty99 there's no proof of that. He said he didn't, she said he did. You can't call it because there is no proof. Honestly she could have been drunk when she tweeted that stuff.
+Night Angel (xZombiePinUpGirlx) Out of your belly button
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+Razor Stan he used to date Lauren for 4+ years, you can find her in his other videos and they did the girlfriend tag, but they broke up a few weeks ago
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I feel you Walter I’m in the same predicament, I was in in a long term
relationship and now I’m trying to put myself back out there but
unfortunately all I keep coming across are people only wanting hook-ups.
That was fine in my twenties but now that I’m in my forties I want to take
my time getting to know someone, trying to make that special
connection…..Damn is that too much to ask for? As for your face I really
don’t see you wearing a beard but I most definitely see you sporting a
goatee.
I love listening to you speak..You are are one of the most realist men I
have met... However on a more positive scale,, I have met men very negative
and militant..that I did not find interesting. I love your demeanor and
disposition... Be comfortable single, enjoy it,, You are just use to some
one being there.. When you start occupying your time with things you love
to do and realize there just isn't enough hours in a do to do what you
enjoy,,THATS when some one will come along.. smiles wink
Hey bf... I have to admit that I was sadden the other day when you
mentioned that you were single again. I love that you were in a steady
relationship.. but I DO understand. The dating game SUCKS!! I've been
single for 8 years... same time since I have been in my career of law
enforcement. It has caused me to be MUCH more picky... I have to be.. and
many black men aren't a fan of law enforcement... so the chips haven't
really been on my side... but its okay... I refuse to settle!! YOU either!
I think a goatee might look good. The other stuff, I feel ya man...i'm 42,
been single for about 5 years...would like a relationship, or at least a
regular weekend date! Two of my neighbors are in their 60's, and both been
single for at least 20 years. they're kinda bitter and set in their ways,
lonely, messy and always gossipping. I PRAY I don't end up like them. spend
time with guys you enjoy talking to, and don't look for another you, find
someone different enough to keep it interesting.
I was in an 11 year relationship, & I can relate.It did take years to end,
& it wasn't easy. The ending was an epic tragedy.So when I dated after
him,I was really shocked at the lack of relationship skills & experience
with the dates.I approached some of the dates still in the mindset or
framework, that they had the long term,relationship-counselor trained
skills & behaviors all in place like me. But that was foolish of me. Many
of us in our community really don't know, what we don't know.
In my opinion, success = accomplishing your goals. Having a successful
relationship comes down to having the same goals with the other person
you're involved with. Doesn't matter if it's a friendship, marriage or
booty call - the goal of the interaction must be shared or the relationship
will fail. You aren't being picky - you have deal breakers. Some you bend
and some are non-negotiable. As for the beard, try it. If you don't like
it, you can always go back to the look you currently have.
First of all I am soooo sorry your long term relationship ended. When I
heard you mentioned this on one of your recent vids it made me feel sad,
because you have spent a great deal of your life with him. Please give
yourself time to grieve the loss of that relationship FULLY before getting
involved with someone else. You must ask yourself what was the lesson you
were suppose to learn from the experience and what would you do
differently. If you don't do this, you WILL repeat this class.
Being able to date someone that progresses to a relationship is a bit of
logic, luck, passion and magic. Sometimes, its amazing what happens when
two people meet for the first time. Most of the time, we meet each other
for superficial reasons - good looks, nice body, nice bank account, etc.
Once the layers of the person is peeled back, you discover what you are
willing to accept and reject about that person. And then the big decision -
how much attention should I give this interaction?
Walter you and I are alike regarding dating and not chasing. It's not in my
nature to pursue a person although I may really like them. I guess I'm just
old fashioned. I think that person will enter your life when it's time.
Keep your standards high, whoever wants to be there will prove it to you.
In regards to facial hair, I like your current look but if it is affecting
you medically, do what will make it easier for you daily. Live well.
Oh Walter honey we gays are just like heterosexuals when it comes to dating
but I think we actually have it better because we know what the other one
likes(due to the same sex factor.) My point: You are going through what
millions are going through all over the world from long term relationships.
You should look up videos and books for getting over long term
relationships. Being single is only temporary love you are not that old. :)
Relationships are tough these days and I am in my late 20's about to be 30
next month...lol. The gay scene/community has always been and continues to
be about whats on the surface and sex! However, I know there are some good
and genuine people out there and you will find them...I mean him...hehe!
About the facial hair, do what you feel is best, either way you are a
handsome brotha!
I'm a straight woman and I think it's outrageous to tell a gay man,who has
said he is not in the least bit interested in women as sexual partners,to
date a woman!No one would ever suggest that a straight man date a man after
a long term relationship has ended,so please have a little respect that
Walter is exactly who he says he is, a proud Black gay man!
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I read in a book called "Too Good to leave, Too Bad to stay" that fighting
is good for a relationship so long as it produces change. Even if you
disagree with the person, but can still understand where theyre coming from
and acknowledge how they feel; if you love them you will do something about
it and make a compromise. If youre just fighting and no one is changing any
behaviours and youre still not getting heard or acknowledged, then fighting
is not producing any change in your relationship and is negative for that
relationship.