Millions of men and women struggle with disordered eating. Some binge, purge, or exercise compulsively. Many skip meals, go on diet after diet, or cut out entire ...
"It's very confusing to be diagnosed with an acronym"--couldn't agree more.
I'm so looking forward to reading this book and sharing it with my loved
ones, too. So many people struggle with eating-related issues and they
exist on a spectrum-- most of us don't fit squarely into the couple of
categories listed in the DSM-IV. I look forward to hearing a range of
voices on this topic rather than just the usual stereotypical "faces" of
anorexia.
Love the video. It's a great illustration of how diverse individuals, each
with her or his own unique story, can recover fully from an eating
disorder--even when that ED defies unambiguous classification. I anticipate
that the book, with its judicious blend of science and story, will resonate
with the many who aspire to help themselves or others achieve a healthy
relationship with food.
Wow...What a powerful message! Eating disorders (and disordered eating)
come in all shapes and sizes, genders, ethnicities, etc. To have that
validated and talked about in an open and honest way will help so many
people find hope and begin to heal. Almost Anorexic is hitting the mark at
a crutial time!
Thank you to the authors for allowing me to take part in this project.
Speaking out on eating disorders as a male is tough, and individuals like
these two women make it possible for EVERYONE to reach out for help!
Great to see a book that talks about the many different ways difficulties
with eating, exercise, and/or body shape and weight concerns can negatively
affect diverse individuals. Can't wait to read the book!
I'm trying to eat once a day. but still sometimes I feel that I can't
control my self to eat more and more. mabve I try should try a real clean
vegan life style
+Elliott Senter What it looks like he had is called Binge Eating Disorder. Quick Google search: Binge eating disorder (BED) is characterized by binge eating without subsequent purging episodes
Bulimia is also when you binge and either exercise like CRAZY, or take some pills to make you poop, or starve a couple of days and then binge again... It's not just throwing up
I've always felt some confusion (for myself) about the ED definition and
being termed a bulimic. I am not trying to excuse EDs or bulimia or say
it's not dangerous and bad, but personally I haven't felt like it controls
me or distresses me or impacts my health. I know that sounds crazy, and you
could say I'm wrong, but personally I noticed that it doesn't feel the way
as others seem to feel. I first started to purge my sophomore year in
Highschool, maybe freshman,and my friend actually came up with the idea
after we had both binged on a ton of junk food. After that, we both just
kept doing it whenever we ate a whole bunch. I think I reached a point
where I did it everyday, then we both started losing weight and I just
backed off of it once I started getting worried about her and us because we
were doing it everyday and even during school. I think we both realized it
was going to far so we sorta just stopped. Then I would do it maybe once
every few months and would go a long while.
I don't think it's right to do, and I don't want to depend on it, so that's why I have seriously cut back and I am trying not to. But when I do binge, it feels so easy to get rid of it. Like it's so simple. Then if I purge, I feel awful while doing it, but better knowing that binge food isn't there anymore. It's funny, because now that I've written all this down, it sounds awful and obvious. But in my head, it doesn't feel that awful since I feel like I choose to do it, and it's not often anymore, and doing it so few times can't have that bad of an effect. The only thing is that I am ashamed to tell anyone. I don't want my boyfriend to know I sometimes do this or that I ever did this. And I want to stop completely because I don't want to feel like a liar anymore. Sorry for using the comment section as my diary..
Eventually, she had completely stopped, and I think I told her I did it, and she seemed surprised. After that I never told her of I did it or not. It's hard to remember, but I think I'd go months without doing it, then maybe pick up again from that period to my senior year. I did it a lot more my senior year. I remember months would go where I'd do it almost every single day, and sometimes twice a day. But I never felt depressed or out of control. More than anything, I'd feel out of control about the binging. During that time however, I realized that I was doing it so much and I did start to worry about my health. So I decided to cut back. I started doing it every other day, then maybe once a week. I got a bf, and it happened much less, but whenever I binged I would do it. I'm now in my junior year of college and this past summer there were times where I was doing it everyday. No one knows.
This was such a powerful video. Thank you for sharing your story. I feel so
bad about the identity issues you've faced in your life. I can't imagine
how you felt. Now I feel guilty for saying you should be a model. I meant
it as a total compliment because I think you are stunning. I have struggled
with bulimia since I was about 12. It is so disgusting and shameful, and
unless you have struggled with it, you have no idea how consuming it is. I
still struggle with it intermittently. The last time was about a year ago.
I admire your strength so so much to overcome the challenges you have
faced. You truly are one of the most inspirational people I know, and I
find so much strength in you. I love you, Brye, and I'm glad to be part of
your life.
+Sammie Livengood No no please don't every feel bad more complimenting me!! This was years ago hun. I'm a way different person today and I have a lot of confidence in who I am and what I look like. I should have clarified that :( Thank you for being brave enough to share your struggle with me. I know it all too well. No matter what, please know that it won't consume you forever. It just takes time and a lot of self work, but you get there. I'm here if you ever need to talk. I'm grateful to have you in my life too girl! Love you right back! xoxo
I always look for certain qualities in the friendships that I have. One of
them is strength and the more I find out about you the more I love you.
After hearing your story it made me so proud to be your friend, your
strength and vulnerability allows everyone (including myself) to realize
that its ok to not be perfect. I love you girl!!!!
Thank you for this Brye. I struggled with anorexia for a solid year about 5
or so years ago and was only able to overcome it because of my parents
being on my ass about it 24/7. lol. However, lately i've been heading back
down that road because i'm on my own and i have no one to hold me
accountable anymore. I've been gaining weight because of my stressful
college schedule and i've never hated what I see in the mirror as much as I
do now and frankly, it scares me. I've started skipping meals again and
really this video couldn't have come at a better time for me. This was a
much needed wake up call. I hope I can pick myself up and get on the right
track. Thank you so much. ILY, and i'm proud to be a Bee! :)
I hope you're doing better again now! The strength to realise you're heading downwards again and know you need to deal with again is admirable. Props to you for the strength you have. Xx
I am currently in my 5th month of Recovery from my 13 year battle with
bulimia, its been one hell of a journey and I am not even close to
recovered but I am not going to let ED get me back EVER, I actually got the
eating disorder national sign tattooed on my collar bone with heart pulses
coming out from the sides to represent that im living again :) I was in
very bad deep depression back in May before I entered my hospital treatment
for the 2nd time, I am so grateful for hospital groups and being able to
share my story with so many around as I am very active socially about my
journey along this road to recovery.
She's always talking about being thin, she obviously still has some sort of eating disorder, she shames people who do not care about what they eat, need i say more?
Honey all you have done is traded one unhealthy obsession for another. Get
help
It's clear to see that there is still ED behavior. That explains your
irrational fear of any food that's not fruit. Fruit is your "safe food"
(that deep down you think won't make you fat) and you've become obsessed
with it in the same way an anorexic is obsessed with counting calories.
You've constructed these false beliefs in your mind that any food outside
of fruit is dangerous. Now that you've figured out a way to appear/feel
cured (by eating lots of fruit) you're happy to consider yourself healed.
Not that simple unfortunately. Just because you now binge on 50 bananas a
day without throwing up doesn't mean you no longer have an eating disorder.
Just take it from someone with a psych degree and I hope you eventually get
help.
+lonelyheroine you know I don't mean to sound mean and nasty I just wanted to stick up for something I believe in, seeing as though I have been through things such as eating disorders , sorry if it sounded mean I don't mean to offend just want to help that's all , all I want to spread in this world is positivity and God's love throughout this world and I have no problem saying that I might have sounded nasty but its something that hits close to home so I felt a need to say something :) anyway have a great day God bless xxx :)
+marilyn makanga Bollocks. What happened to personal choice? She appears to have the "My way or the highway."mindset. I wrote an obscenely lengthy comment on here about Freelee's belief that what works for her is all that counts. You have no right to boast that Freelee's regimen is THE ONLY diet that will work. News flash: Get over yourself. I suppose you believe that Type 1 diabetics should scarf down thirty bananas as well. They would wind up dead. This bothers me, the elitist attitude she and her minions have spread throughout YouTube. A little humility would go a long way.
She is absolutely healthy , she does not just eat fruit, she is full of energy and is happy , I don't know why you have to bring people down with your negative comments. Would u rather here stick every meal so that she didn't have the energy she has now :( why can't u just accept that this method is better than yours .... Sorry but it's true :p