15 and pregnant don't know what to do Videos

+Caspian Sunerton-Burl if you're under the legal 16 or what ever the legal age for you is  then you should not be having sex. on a another note.same here gotta be 16 to have sex but for f*cks sake do these people who made that law  really think a "16" year old is going to have sex responsibly it should be 18 or 20  i mean by 20 you're be an adult + ever one knows how teenage boys are these days there just a bunch of horn balls. Except for a very few amount. 

+GunGameMaster What if they weren't old enough to have sex which is actually the entire thing of this video and it's in the title. (I don't know where you're from and what the legal age for sex is there but here in the UK it's 16)

"Oh really. Did you do your research and find out there are WAY more deaths because of abortion then most surgeries and there are other side affects and risks besides that".Ha Ha Ha Ha!!!!! Now I KNOW you're bullshitting. How far up your ass did you reach to pull that out? First of all, it's surgery. EVERY surgery has risks, your fuckin' point? Second, UNSAFE abortion causes 47,000 deaths and 5,000,000 hospital admissions WORLD fuckin' WIDE. Small amount of people compared to the women on the planet. The World Health Organization (W.H.O) defines unsafe abortion as abortions done by: Unskilled individuals, with hazardous equipment, or in unsanitary facilities. LEGAL and SAFE abortions in the developed world (western medical practice) are among the SAFEST PROCEDURES IN ALL OF FUCKIN' MEDICINE. "And for your information if they got divorced and he's crying about the money, well they should have gotten a pre-nup".Would you say that if a woman was being forced to give up half their shit in a divorce? FUCK NO, because you have a bias towards women, you fuckin' sexist and so do the courts. Divorce cases disproportionately favor the female. She gets half of ALL of her ex-husband's assets that HE worked for not her and even alimony. If you put child support on top of that, which is ALREADY more money than you're making it out to be, he's going to be losing a very large amount of his income. He's not seeing his own money ever. She gets a steady supply of money for LIFE. You're missing the fuckin' point AGAIN, you dumb bitch. This is not fair. She doesn't even have to be working to receive any of this shit. And for YOUR information, if there is "grounds" for it, the courts can take that magic little pre-nup,WIPE THEIR ASSES with it and throw it the fuck out. Do you see the problem yet? FUCK NO! Now, tell me more about how it's harder for the woman."And child support does depend on how much he makes, so it's not like it's making him broke".Ok, I'm gonna put this in terms even a lobotomite like you will understand. You ready? The more money that he makes, the more that they will take from him. The more children that came out of the pregnancy also increases the amount owed. In Florida, child support garnishes 65% of a man's take home pay. That's fuckin' ridiculous. That is a serious blow to his finances and it very well will leave him broke. Every child support case ever is different. Lastly, child support has NOTHING to do with the children. It’s all about supporting and subsidizing mothers. It is all about the transfer or wealth from fathers to mothers. It is a system that does not take into consideration the accountability for how the money is spent to care for the children or if it even IS being spent on the children. It’s also a massive game between the Federal government and the states that is only getting more and more convoluted. It is a subsidy for single motherhood."They both took a risk and this is the price they have to pay".There is no legal risk to pregnancy for a woman. There is no price that she has to pay outside of abortion procedures or time in the hospital for birthing. The man had nothing to do with her CHOOSING to keep the baby. He cannot CHOOSE to be a parent. Only women can. He is forced by the woman to adhere to the commands of the state and become a financial slave. Can you see where it's harder for men yet? FUCK NO!"Also if woman is getting child support, she is not sitting on her but all day, she is raising the kid and probably working because child support won't pay all the bills and unimployment won't last forever".You don't know that, nor did I make the claim. I said that all she HAD to do was sit on her ass and collect money. Meaning, that she doesn't have to work to receive child support payment. Yes, child support will pay bills, and what do you mean by "unimployment"? Do you mean unemployment payments? You have to get laid off to receive that. If you mean not working then, you're an idiot. If she doesn't want to work, she doesn't have to. Raising a child.....is not hard. Raising a child that you're not financially responsible for, is even easier. You do realize that as parents there are alternatives to being around your child, right? Hire a nanny, baby sitter, day care, school, other family members, friends--et cetera. "As for a kid he didn't want, he has no obligation to see that child ever, but that is sad if they don't considering that child is a part of them".Oh,fuck off! Would you say the same if a woman aborted a child that she didn't want? Would you say the same if she gave an unwanted child up for adoption? FUCK NO! Women know the difference between who want to have their children and who just don't like condoms. Stop holding double standards and start holding women ACCOUNTABLE. Oh yea that's REAL fair. "He doesn't have to SEE the kid, HE JUST HAS TO FUCKING PAY FOR IT EVEN THOUGH IT WASN'T HIS CHOICE TO GO THROUGH WITH THE PREGNANCY"! "Finally not all women make the guy pay child support".Not the point. The fact that they are able gives them a privilege under law that makes their situation better and the man's worse. That's not equal treatment under the law as promised in the constitution. "my mom didn't and I've never met my father and let me tell you it was harder on my mother then any child support my father would of ever had to pay".That's her fault. She assumed full responsibility and CHOSE to be a parent. To be honest, the same is often said for single fathers and they are far less likely to receive any financial assistance. Also, you can't opt out of being a FATHER even if you never wanted the kids."But why did she do it if ending parent hood is SO easy as you said ,which it's not, because she loves me as most of these mom's do for there children".You're a dumbass. Ending parenthood for women is extremely easy. Look up Baby Moses laws. We've already talked about abortion. She didn't end it,because she CHOSE not to end it. Yea I'm noticing a theme here. The woman has all the choice because the government puts the pussy on a pedestal and caters to women while it marginalizes and eliminates the man's say in the matter. Parenthood is not difficult when financially stable. And once again you left out single fathers, you sexist fuck. By the way, it's harder for them under law to be a single parent.You don't know what you're talking about. Once again I will say, get your facts straight before you come at people sideways. You. Ignorant. Sexist. FUCK!

Ooooooooo!!!!!!! If you think my comment is stupid, you're a sexist and you're a fucking moron. You're a fucking moron,because no one wins. And you're a sexist because the one paying child support has it worse, but you think, because he's a man, he has it better because he's not parenting the child. Parenting in a financially stable environment is NOT hard, especially when paying for the child is someone else's fuckin' responsibility. (The MAN!)Women don't HAVE TO do shit. They can stop the pregnancy at any point and even if they ALLOW the baby to grow inside of them then this is not an argument. She chose not to use contraception and she's not forced to stay pregnant or even be a parent. She can give the baby up at any point in time,but when a MOTHER gives up her kid, does she get called a dead beat mom? Are there any stereotypes about dead beat moms? I fuckin' thought not, dumb bitch.So fucking what if people look at her giving birth? Boo fucking Hoo! She knew what was going to happen when she CHOSE to have the baby. It was her decision and she should take responsibility for her actions. The man had nothing to do with her CHOICE to have and keep the baby. By the way, men can't opt out of parenthood. Only women can. I love....I just fucking LOVE how you left out the irresponsible single dad parts, you fuckin' sexist. Giving birth doesn't mean shit,sorry. He's less likely to receive ANY government assistance, food stamps included,because men work overtime more often and won't usually make below the income requirements. You didn't do any fuckin' research. So what if abortion has risks of death so does open heart surgery, what's your fuckin' point? When a woman has a child, she is way more likely to get, child support, government assistance, and gets less money taken from her income taxes. That baby is a guarantee that she will never be homeless or hungry again.Meanwhile, you fuckin' dumbass, as SOON as she files for child support, the man is forced by the state to work his ass off for 18-21 years to pay for the WOMAN'S reproductive CHOICE. He is being forced to be financially responsible for a child he never wanted in most cases. This is in itself involuntary servitude. The man is a financial SLAVE to the woman. And just like any slave he is punished if he doesn't meet his quota. This man is going to be FORCED to go to prison for not being able to pay. Once a month? Try once a fuckin' week,bitch. 130+ dollars depending on how much you make. That is a little below half of several paychecks. Minimum wage is 7.25 times a 40 hr work week that's 290 dollars a week. For 18-21 years he's not seeing one red fuckin' cent of his own money. And all "mommy" has to do is sit on her ass and do shit while the money rolls in. And if they got divorced and he has to pay alimony? He's fuckin' penny less. If you think this is fair you're a sexist idiot.Yea, they can get food stamps, what's your fuckin' point? You didn't even get the point I was trying to make. It is unwise to keep a baby when you are barely able to financially support yourself. Even with food stamps the government only gives so much assistance.....it's not infinite. There are thousands of people on food stamps and they get a set number of stamps or amount of money on a snap card, a month. Food stamps are not that special,sorry. Substituting a shitty situation with a slightly less shitty situation is still a shitty situation none the less. Get your fuckin' facts straight before you come at people side ways, you ignorant fuck. To answer YOUR stupid comment.

And for the record SHE can opt out of parent hood before and after the fact. He can't he has every right to be worried,you fucking misandrist.

The glasses distract people from the hair.

+KicktheClaire :3 You know it's intensely scary for both sides if both sides actually love eachother, a guy would be freaking out just as much feeling probably very guilty/bad sort of thing, yes it's the girl who has to give birth so she can't really run whereas a guy can just run the away if he's an asshole but you know if he actually loves the girl and stays with her is stressful for both sides, I'm just saying, probably on average it's more stressful for the girl in relationships, but quite frankly it's very stressful for both (if it's an unwanted pregnancy) and providing they stick together is still life changing for the guy and the girl. Just saying :)

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+ShipShrekt Ftw Ya know when people vomit their emotions through text...the usual stuff.

Why is that comment so abnormal?

yes... ;(

No. Do you?

Do you have Down syndrome?

I would hope she would keep her head..

she obviously doesn't need the bull shit of people ripping on her in the comments of her video. sadly, there's no way she could have avoided the scrutiny of her peers. i cease to see the reason why people feel like they need to judge others for things they have no bussiness in! no matter who you are or what you do, there will always be someone who judges you. everyone is beautiful and no one deserves to feel worthless for anything they've done. except maybe if they've done something illegal :/

Okay! Calm down! I made this video to put my opinion out into the world and that. I DID. Honestly , I couldn't care more about what you said, to be honest , looking at what you said, you clearly didn't listen too closely to what I've said, I now invite you go fuck yourself. I'm all about us , the human race, accepting everyone in it , for the good and the bad. Teenage pregnancy is both good and bad. That's all I'm saying. Think of the sliver lining. Who gives a fuck about hate anyway?!?!?!

My mother gave birth to me at 15. She gave me up for adoption and I got adopted by a wonderful loving family. I AM NOT embarrassed at all that I am an adopted child. My mother getting pregnant at a young age does not effect me AT ALL that was her mistake not mine. I am not embarrassed of my birth mother. I have a amazing adoptive mother and she is MY REAL MOTHER. I am in no way demotivated. An adopted child shouldn't have ANYTHING to be ashamed of. Stop categorizing adopted children.

It's her own fault she's pregnant. If she wants to fool around at such a young age without protection that's what's going to happen. Also, it's not just a mistake to get over.... It's a child. That child will grow up in pure embarrassment of being adopted and not having a true mother. On top of that it will be completely demotivated its whole life after finding out who its mother actually is. Moral of the story, if you're that young at least use some damn protection.

She said she's keeping the child. When I said get over it I meant that people who are freaking out because she's pregnant should get over it . This happens all the time. She's gonna be a teen mom and her kid's gonna have to deal with that fact. She's not the first and won't be the last. I'm just saying that instead of breaking her down, let's help build her up, simply because there's a child who'll need a mentally and emotionally strong mother.

I couldn't agree more. I'm not a teen mom, but my best friend is. Yeah, it's hard, but she needed her friends, and people who would support her during her pregnancy. The people who weren't supportive are no longer part of her life, and that's for the best. When she got pregnant we were sophomores in high school, so she was 15. She had her son at 16, and we are now 19. She's doing great now. She has a place of her own and everything.

No one said that it wasn't her own fault, but at least she's taking responsibility. And she's keeping it and not putting it up for adoption. And my friend happens to be adopted and he's doing just fine, he's one of the coolest guys I know and we've been friends since age 2 and never has he EVER had any problem with being adopted. So quit talking about shit you have absolutely no idea about, it just shows us your ignorance.

Everything from the third rode is invalid because she is keeping the child and w h y would it be embarrasing to be adopted? Never heard something that stupid. She wasn't "fooling around" she has a boyfriend and THEY decided to do things that doesn't concerns anyone but them and there family. And you should have some kind of protection from internet so you would stop comment stupid things.

Personally, I'm "underage" and this isn't a US issue or a UK issue this is a world issue. It's because of adults like you that this world is so fucked up. I know reality isn't pretty I've had a pretty difficult version of it myself. All I'm trying to do is help someone feel better and all I have to say is if you can't humble yourself and see the silver lining then you're pretty bad off.

You said that its rape. Its not because its between minors. Its not considered consensual nor can it be illegal. I'm not saying its right, I'm saying this is what happens in the REAL world. Also, I'm just saying that the hate should stop , and we should show some love to the rest of the human race. Anyway , there always people with different opinions and I guess that's yours.

Wow doll calm down. I mean be you but lol don't get so over worked up over them haters. I follow sierra and i hope everything works out for her,i think she'll be an anazing mom,but don't get so worked up over haters. Don't let them get to YOU. I know your standing up fir her and doing what's right,but she'll get threw it. Just don't get so worked up about it...

i def will!! :)

I enjoyed it :) You should do more of these :)

+emzini i love doing videos like these! i like to bring some real life issues to the plate. i am actually bad at explaining!! hahaha but thanks! thank you:)

+Paige Leigh thank you!!

Thank you. So am I

wow! how amazing!!! i am so happy that everything did turn out great for you!! i am happy that your husband didn't leave you like many disgusting guys do now a days!

+GlamGirl Brenda yes I'm 27 now and my daughter is 8 and I only have her. I got lucky that till this day I have her father by my side. He could have just left and never have to worry about my daughter and I and that's what a lot of girls don't think about. I'm married to my father's child and we have happy but we did struggle to get where we are now. But I am so thankful because I know I did get lucky to have my husband by my side. Anyways thanks so much☺

+Alis Pena-Chicas Totally agree with everything you said gorgeous<3 It is great that you learned and now you know better:) Thank you so much!! I just subscribed gorgeous<3 :)

+Mariama Cora hahahaha thanks!! i get scared to be blunt but you know what! i have to be myself and honest and help others!

+Lushaflor Well he doesn't get along with them too well now either because everyone is always trying to tell us how to live

No I don't even talk to his dad anymore. But eventually if you and your fiance just stick together through thick and thin, your in laws will come around.

I'm not sure, I'm honestly not a social media person at all:/

I had to be induced at 38 weeks, my waters broke, but I was barely having contractions, not dilating and I had a slight fever. From getting the oxytocin IV to being fully dilated it took 10 hours, and at one stage my baby's heart rate got really high and we thought I might have to have a c-section, but thankfully things speeded up and I was ready to push. I would try to avoid an induction unless it's necessary, I think it does increase the likelihood of a cesarean as well as other complications

Hey hun,, i dont wanna scare u or n e thing,, but with my pregnancy i had short of breath alot once i hit 29 weeks and it happened when walking up staires and also even when i was just sitting at my desk at work so i went hospital and had loads of tests and i ended up having a pulmunary embolism ( blood clot on my lung) sounds more scarier than it is,, its more of a risk to urswlf not so much the baby/babies,, just thort id let u know,, so if it does get n e worse then it might be worth just go

I didn't want to be induced but had to.. I went to 41 weeks (with little progress - also had gestational diabetes) My dr. wouldn't let me go past 41 weeks. The risks for baby go up after 40 weeks. It's not as healthy for baby, the placenta isn't as good as far as oxygen and nutrients b/c a pregnancy is only meant to go 40 weeks. Induction can be hard on some women, but if your body is ready it can go smoothly. It only took me 10 1/2 hrs without any complications.. Good luck with everything!!

you should go for a home birth or a birthing center...it is worth the extra money...in the long run it actually costs less...because the hospitals are not going to care what you want...all they care about is that they get you in and get you out so they can get the next paying patient in. contact a local whole foods store for info on finding help for delivering twins naturally. just a tip...dr's dont like when you "know more than them" so play dumb at first and slowly let out your info!!! :)

Hey girl! I work in a labor and delivery unit. Getting induced is not a bad thing especially with twins. If you go to 40 weeks your placenta starts to age and you are at higher risk for a c-section with twin. If you cervix if favorable an soft inductions can go really quickly with no complications. Also i have never seen an adverse reaction using pitocin for an induction. Also theyll probably have you deliver in the OR just in case the second baby flips when the first one is delivered.

Hey Jess, I had an induction after premature rupturing of my membranes (PROM) at 37weeks (waited 36 hours but then induced as no contractions) - my labour was great! I was fortunate my hospital used a low level of syntocin (synthetic oxytocin) and gradually brought the level up until my contractions started. My induction was more of a jump start than a tow if you don't mind the analogy! 5 hours from first contraction to bub in arms, no drugs/epi/etc. and no complications. :)

I did not want to be induced either BUT at 40 weeks I felt like I was going to die so I went to the hospital. Well... by then ultrasound was putting his weight at 10.5 pounds ! I thought this must be wrong. After 24 hours of induction and a c section ( induction did nothing .. just small contractions ) we discovered he was eleven and a half pounds. I wish I had been induced at 38 weeks or sooner !!! Induction is not ideal but I wonder if it could have saved me a c section.

This is probably going to freak you out, but I think your stomach muscles are going to separate. Since you're having twins, and you're only 5'3" there's a fair chance it's going to happen. It happened to my mum when she was pregnant with me because I was a really big baby (9lb 4oz). You're lucky you don't have big babies. My uncles were both around Lilia's weight, which sounds fine, but they were twins. My poor grandmother.

If I knew then what I know now about being induced and also getting an epidural..I wouldnt have. Those two combined, can cause a reaction in which the baby or babies go into distress, and can cause you to have a c-section, or cause the baby/babies to be in the NICU for however long. So yes, please inform yourself! I know you will, because you have already.

Well the shortness of breath is easy to explain! the babies are pushing your organs up into your diaphragm. one of the reasons they try to induce is your blood pressure or yours or the baby's oxygen levels. Definitely get a good knowledge of signs of fetal distress so they don't try and push you by telling you your babies are in trouble if they aren't.

I've always wanted to ask this Q Jess, missed your Q&A vid - doh! What made you stop breastfeeding Lilia at 7 months? Did you not want to continue? I understand you had to do lots of pumping when you were at college - can't be easy. Just wondered as a breastfeeding mother myself - I'm planning on going until my daughter self weans x