Here is what I think of when I think of transgendered persons:
//nypost.com/2015/08/06/man-on-meth-claims-to-be-tarzan-tries-to-enter-monkey-exhibit-cops/
That man thinks that he is Tarzan. He is not. John William Rodenborn is
John, not Tarzan.
A man who think that he is a woman, is NOT a woman. He is a man.
A woman who thinks that she is a man, is NOT a man. She is a woman.
+Sydney Piper Bristow "You apparently didn't even read the link you posted. LOL. ''SO WHAT''? Really? the facts, so what! Get your shit straight."Why bother reading what I already read elsewhere? I actually have read the history of transgenderism which emerged from the abuse of children by Dr. Money and his cronies. You want research://www.returnofkings.com/75405/a-modern-day-horror-story-on-the-origin-of-the-transgender-movementExcerpt:"David (living as Brenda) was terrified of the visits to Dr. Money. As early as a few months after the initial operation, at age 2, Brenda would angrily tear off her dress, refused to play with dolls, would beat up her twin brother and steal his toy cars and guns. She complained to her teachers and parents that she felt like a boy. She loved running and climbing and fighting and hated playing with dolls. She had no friends, and was constantly teased and ridiculed by classmates for her masculine looks and interests.Both twins complained they were sexually abused during their treatment sessions with Money. Brenda had to pee through a small hole surgeons had created in her abdomen. She was taking female hormones, but they only caused some physical changes and did not make her feel female.The mother, overcome with guilt and the pain of hiding this secret, attempted suicide. The father became a serious alcoholic and rarely spoke. Twin brother Brian began using drugs and stealing things. At age 13, Brenda was experiencing suicidal depression, and said she would commit suicide if forced to return to Dr. Money’s office again."//www.thepublicdiscourse.com/2015/04/14905/From the article:"Money’s first transgender case came in 1967 when he was asked by a Canadian couple, the Reimers, to repair a botched circumcision on their two-year-old son, David. Without any medical justification, Money launched into an experiment to make a name for himself and advance his theories about gender, no matter what the consequences to the child. Money told the distraught parents that the best way to assure David’s happiness was to surgically change his genitalia from male to female and raise him as a girl. As many parents do, the Reimers followed their doctor’s orders, and David was replaced with Brenda. Money assured the parents that Brenda would adapt to being a girl and that she would never know the difference. He told them that they should keep it a secret, so they did—at least for a while.Activist doctors like Dr. Money always look brilliant at first, especially if they control the information that the media report. Money played a skilled game of “catch me if you can,” reporting the success of the boy’s gender change to the medical and scientific community and building his reputation as a leading expert in the emerging field of gender change. It would be decades before the truth was revealed. In reality, David Reimer’s “adaptation” to being a girl was completely different from the glowing reports concocted by Money for journal articles. By age twelve, David was severely depressed and refused to return to see Money. In desperation, his parents broke their secrecy, and told him the truth of the gender reassignment. At age fourteen, David chose to undo the gender change and live as a boy.In 2000, at the age of thirty-five, David and his twin brother finally exposed the sexual abuse Dr. Money had inflicted on them in the privacy of his office. The boys told how Dr. Money took naked photos of them when they were just seven years old. But pictures were not enough for Money. The pedophilic doctor also forced the boys to engage in incestuous sexual activities with each other."Transgenderism began as a means of child abuse by Dr. John Money and Dr. Alfred Kinsey toward the Reimer twins who were never happy being made to be female, when they really were genetically MALE.What happened to the two boys? Answer: They committed suicide via depression. The depression isn't due to bigotry, but not facing the reality of their real sex which places as terrible psychological and emotional burden on them. At St. John Hopkin's University after performing 50 SRSs the results were provided by Dr. John Meyer on August 10, 1979:"“To say this type of surgery cures psychiatric disturbance is incorrect. We now have objective evidence that there is no real difference in the transsexual’s adjustments to life in terms of job, educational attainment, marital adjustment and social stability.” He later told The New York Times: “My personal feeling is that the surgery is not a proper treatment for a psychiatric disorder, and it’s clear to me these patients have severe psychological problems that don’t go away following surgery.”"That was after 10 years of SRSs proving that they didn't help.The Washington Post also reported on this:https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/to-your-health/wp/2015/02/09/heres-how-sex-reassignment-surgery-works/A Swedish study from the Karolinska Institute also found that SRS's don't help in a survey of 324 cases://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0016885Excerpt:"Persons with transsexualism, after sex reassignment, have considerably higher risks for mortality, suicidal behaviour, and psychiatric morbidity than the general population. Our findings suggest that sex reassignment, although alleviating gender dysphoria, may not suffice as treatment for transsexualism, and should inspire improved psychiatric and somatic care after sex reassignment for this patient group."And of course the University of Birmingham in UK:In UK, University of Birmingham survey 100 peer reviewed studies that further confirmed that SRSs don't help://www.theguardian.com/society/2004/jul/30/health.mentalhealthExcerpt:"There is no conclusive evidence that sex change operations improve the lives of transsexuals, with many people remaining severely distressed and even suicidal after the operation, according to a medical review conducted exclusively for Guardian Weekend tomorrow.The review of more than 100 international medical studies of post-operative transsexuals by the University of Birmingham's aggressive research intelligence facility (Arif) found no robust scientific evidence that gender reassignment surgery is clinically effective."That's science, not bigotry.Apparently people revert back to their REAL GENDER, that they were born with and Walt Heyer of sexchangeregret.com isn't the only one:Here is Britain's youngest transgender who went back to really being a man://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2224753/Ria-Cooper-Britains-youngest-sex-change-patient-reverse-treatment.html#ixzz2AyFR0XCs"But she has failed to find happiness as a female, even admitting to dabbling in prostitution in an attempt to counteract the loneliness she felt .Ms Cooper also says the hormone injections left her with extreme emotions and a high sex drive, but that she can not find the love she craves with either sex.She believes she will have better luck in love as a 'trendy' gay man, and that returning to being a male will help heal the damaged relationships with her family."Here is an article with a series of persons who regretted sex change operations.//thefederalist.com/2014/11/11/trouble-in-transtopia-murmurs-of-sex-change-regret/From Alan Finch, who had his SRS at 19 and then regretted it bitterly. Here is what he said of it:"transsexualism was invented by psychiatrists. . . .You fundamentally can’t change sex … the surgery doesn’t alter you genetically. It’s genital mutilation. My ‘vagina’ was just the bag of my scrotum. It’s like a pouch, like a kangaroo. What’s scary is you still feel like you have a penis when you’re sexually aroused. It’s like phantom limb syndrome. It’s all been a terrible misadventure. I’ve never been a woman, just Alan . . . the analogy I use about giving surgery to someone desperate to change sex is it’s a bit like offering liposuction to an anorexic."SRSs don't work. Try psychological counseling instead, so that reality is faced and the delusion is put aside. That is real therapy and that is what should be done per the Hypocratic Oath.
+Aegius You apparently didn't even read the link you posted. LOL. ''SO WHAT''? Really? the facts, so what! Get your shit straight.Once again, you didn't read my links abt the history of transgenderism. They were treated well by the community and important. Totally not in any comparison to killers or rapists you idiot. ''SO WHAT''!!! YOU SEEM TO BE STUCK IN YOUR OWN IGNORANCE.No respectable resource says the crap you spew. LOL, Just stop, you will only further embarrass yourself. Facts are facts and even when you try to come back w some, they bite you in the arse. BYE FELICIA
+Sydney Piper Bristow "Actually, Birmingham and Karolinska are still performing SRS.--"So what? They stated that SRSs don't help. Depression and suicide are still not alleviated."Yes, transgender and other LGBT members have been here since the beginning of man. This is no magical phenomena coming out of nowhere."So have lunatics and serial killers? So what? A person has a problem, then it is a problem. If a person believes that s/he is of the wrong sex, that is a psychological problem. Enlightened yet?If a person believes that s/he is something that s/he is not whether it be Tarzan, Napoleon, a dog, a cat or of the wrong sex, that is a psychological problem and that person has my full condolences to resolve that problem.
+Aegius Actually, Birmingham and Karolinska are still performing SRS.---//www.theguardian.com/society/2004/jul/30/health.mentalhealth-
-//newsfeed.time.com/2013/01/14/transgender-people-in-sweden-no-longer-face-forced-sterilization-
-Hopkins is still refusing to do SRS for now.Yes, transgender and other LGBT members have been here since the beginning of man. This is no magical phenomena coming out of nowhere.//www.bilerico.com/2008/02/transgender_history_trans_expression_in.phphttps://www.quora.com/What-was-the-state-of-transgender-people-in-ancient-IndiaEnlightened yet?
+Sydney Piper Bristow I did my own research on it already. Not just the St. John Hopkin's University that abandoned SRSs after being at the forefront for a decade but there are other universities such as the University of Birmingham and Karolinska Institute in Sweden that have gone against SRS.Been around since the beginning? The ancient Greeks, Romans, Babylonians, Sumerians and Egyptians all had SRSs? Really? Wow. I studied those civilizations and read their literature and didn't know they did so. Who knew that Aristotle, Plato, Confucius, Buddha and other great thinkers discussed and approved of Trans-gendered persons and decided that gender is fluid and not fixed? Wow. You so enlightened me. NOT!
+Aegius I am not going to get into a juvenile I say yes and you say no battle. I have done the research and the facts are agst you. Since you do not understand any of these phenomenon, I suggest you start researching.You can keep ignorant all you want on the subject of transgenderism, but it has been here since the beginning and will be here until the end. Cont wasting your breathe.
+Sydney Piper Bristow "The psychology, as you put it does change. Breasts do lactate. Not all women lactate."Wrong. The psychology doesn't change. the MEN don't get a nurturing instinct and the WOMEN don't get an aggressive instinct. The so-called breasts in the men don't lactate. Yes, some women don't lactate, but so what? It still doesn't make those men into women."Hips do grow wider. There is cycles, but not menstrual. No, there is no uterus, but some women do not have that. And might I point out, we are more than our internal organs."Hips don't grow wider and thank you for admitting that there is no menstral cycle and not uterus. The man is still a man.Yes, some remain in the 80's, but that doesn't make them women, but still only mutilated and delusional men.Women battered do have higher suicide rate, but so what? I checked upon rape victims: 13%. Suicide caused by bullying: 7 to 9% per Yale studies. The highest is still the transgendered AFTER SRSs which is at 41% and so whatever bullying and physical abuse doesn't account for the high rate, because CIS-gendered(People who via sanity recognize and respect their REAL sex.) who endure bullying and physical and other abuse have much lower rates of suicide. Rape victims 13%. Bullying victims: 7 to 9%. Trans after SRS: 41%. Try psychological counseling. That's the real answer as it works toward enabling a person to make peace with reality rather than being placated toward the fantasy.
+Aegius You need a bit more education. You have a very limited knowledge of the biology of human beings. The psychology, as you put it does change. Breasts do lactate. Not all women lactate. Some men even lactate. Hips do grow wider. There is cycles, but not menstrual. No, there is no uterus, but some women do not have that. And might I point out, we are more than our internal organs.While the suicide rate is high, so is women who are battered, or anyone who is having a tuff life. The fact that transwomen have lived to be in their 80s prove it works. Sorry pal.A transgender brain is exactly the brain of their identified sex. Take your ignorance and go learn something before you try to speak to me. You will only further embarrass yourself.
+Sydney Piper Bristow SRSs don't change the psychology, and only limitedly changes anatomy and physiology as the hips aren't made significantly wider, the "breasts" don't lactate, there is no uterus or menstruation cycles for the men. The men don't gain instincts for nuturing and the women don't gain instincts for aggression to stick a rod beneath the waste to insert into other persons. & Frankly usually the penis remains anyway. Besides suicide rate of 41% doesn't change before or after the SRS, so the notion that the SRS provides a solution is laughable. The real answer is psychological counseling and get these persons to come to grips that their fantasy of wanting to be the opposite sex is just that: a fantasy and to face the reality of making peace with their real biological sexes.
I used to buy this. Now I don't. You're born male -> You're male. You're
born female -> You're female. If you're born male, you don't
psychologically miss having a uterus and mammary glands, so don't give me
crap that you wish you had them. You don't. If you're born female, you
don't psychologically miss having a penis, so don't give me crap that you
wish you had it. You don't.
I used to buy this. Now I don't. It is a mental disorder and the medical
world should have spine and fight back against this nonsense. & I don't
care if I am called a bigot for preaching sanity.
+Destiny Price GHOSH THANKS DAT HELPED A LOT DESTINY .. SO COOL .. :). BUT THE PROBLEM I WAS MAINY HAVING WAS SUBSCRIBING TO SOMEONE AND YET NOT FINDING THEM IN MY LIST :( DATS WHY GOT A BIT CONFUSED BY IT .... BUT STILL THANKS A TON IT HELPED THOUGH :)
+Rexx Bailey if you go to your main page. there is subscriptions and on the side you will see messaged once you are in subscriptions to get to your messages to private message someone you go to their page and to about and there is a message button.
+zaffri HI ZAFFRI HOW U BEEN SWEETS .. WAT U BEEN UP TO ??.. WUD LUV TO TALK WID U DEARS.. UMM BUT STILL AVENT BEEN ABLE TO GET THE HANG OF MESSAGING PRIVATELY THOUGH WUD REALLY BE NICE IF U CUD GIVE ME TIPS IN THOSE REGARDS THOUGH .. TAKE CARE SWEETLIPS BEST WISHES AND REGARDS... MEE :)
+zaffri ZAFFRI HI SWEETS HOW U BEEN GIRL.. LONG TIME NO SEE GIRL!.. WELL WHICH IS MY FAULT THOUGH :( SORRY WAS SICK ALL THESE WEEKS SO ONLY NOW ABLE TO CUM ONLINE I DO HOPE THE MESSAGE I SENT U GOT THROUGH THOUGH ???.. LEMME KNOW IF IT DID SWEETS.. WUD BE NICE TO HEAR FROM U .. CIAO HUGSS .. TAKE CARE SWEET ONE :) REGARDS. MEE !! :P
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+Aegius UR SANITY AINT SANE ENOUGH ... AND BY THE WAY U WILL EAT ONLY BROCCOLI AND PEAS FOR THE REST OF UR LIFE. DARE YOU TRY TO EVEN LOOK AT ANYTHING ELSE. OK NOW HAVE FUN.
Gender Dysphoria - Creating Your Treatment Plan
Gender dysphoria is not a one size fits all. Creating your personal treatment plan is an important step to being rid of it. In this audio block I explain how.
Erica - You are a rock star! Thank you sooooooo much for being YOU! This
lecture has been tremendously helpful for me, as I'm just now starting my
transition at 45 years old. I'm now listening to it during my exercise
routine at the gym. It helps me keep focused on what's important. I want
your sage words to become part of my living and breathing thought process.
I've even forwarded it to a couple of healthcare providers. I look forward
to visiting your website soon. Again, thank you soooooooo much!
+Dara Hoffman-FoxThank you. I also did a guest lecture recently for one of our state universities in New York State. That link is listed in the playlist I gave you. Listening to what it is you teach is close to what I teach. I think I tweaked it a bit though. I would still love to talk on a prfessional level and know my interest is not in making money. I gave you my number in an email but got an auto response. Let me know if you would like it again.
+Dara Hoffman-Fox Dara, I'd like to share this with you as well. I'm doing these audio blocks. Trying to keep them to about 20 minutes or so due to the human attention span and, in the totality of what I'm saying, explain my entire theory of gender psychology. This video is number four on that list. I would like to share with you the playlist though. Most of it is like listening to NPR and you don't really have to watch once you have the simple graphic in your mind.https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLwkmAK5EOCBY4LCqtdI7aWBcsIOH-4bEz
Thank you for this. I am 51, and I've had these feelings for a few weeks
now. I have an urge to buy clothes, but want to get my body hair removed
first (I am such a bear), but it's the fear of the unknown that is pushing
me back. I did have a basic pedicure, at a ladies salon, so that's
something, speaking of big feet I am size 13 male, it's hard enough to find
mens' shoes in my size, let alone ladies shoes!
+Erica Elizabeth Ravenwood I am thinking about the clothes I would like to wear. I was thinking sweaters or blouses and slacks, and maybe flat shoes. I really want to wear a bra, as I have some natural development, but it's just the vanity in me, I want to get a bra fitting, but I have such a hairy chest and back, I don't want to scare the bra fitter! Tee Hee! I had a makeover in a drug store last November, and the girl there want's me to come in and have another one. I want to be dressed en femme when I get it. One day at a time!
+Albert Giesbrecht Would a viable alternative to waiting until you have hair removal be choosing clothing you like but that might hide what you wish to hide for now? For me, until the hormones did their thing to reduce body hair I chose tops with a higher neck line the hide my chest more. Tunics that would hide lower areas I wasn't comfortable with. Finding these clothes and then seeing myself differently in the mirror help me tons because it's our mental image that screws us up. We then project that to the world. But if we gain a positive metal image we then project that to the world instead.
+Albert Giesbrecht There ya go. Use your strengths. Another thing I will share about myself is I don't worry about what other women do. I'm tall. I stand out and I'm gonna wear whatever the hell I want on any particular day. Because I walk through the world with confidence people don't even know I'm transgender unless I choose to tell them but instead they see this confident person who is going to look at you in the eye with a smileConfidence is the key, I found. People love a confident person.
It was the concept of putting to paper my thoughts. I haven't seen a therapist yet, but these concerns are floating through my head all the time. Where do I get clothes, how much makeup can I wear without making a scene (Not too many women in Vancouver wear makeup)?, those types of questions. I am a writer, so I know about writing outlines, I should apply that technique to this quest as well.
I have a few trans friends and I can say that all my friends are so much
happier once they came out. I will say that I have had good experiences and
bad with some of my friends when they where changing and that came down to
the pronouns as a few got really stuck on them and would get so pissed off
if someone made a mistake which I totally get is a hard thing to deal with
when your changing and you want so bad for the world to see you how you
really should be. My friends who didn't really care right away were a lot
happier and easier to talk to and more willing to answer questions people
had. I am telling you this only because I have seen what coming out and
transitioning and being suck/getting mad at people who slip up can do to a
person. I lost a really really good friend of mine because he couldn't take
me messing up all the time (I had known him for 18 years before he changed
and I tried so hard to remember to call him and him but every once in a
while she would slip out and it was too much for him and he broke off the
friendship). I have another friend who I had known for only 4 years and
when he started to transition he took the time to listen to me as I have a
few learning disabilities which makes it harder for me to say the opposite
from what I see. He understood I was trying so hard and we are still
friends today and it's been about a year now from the last time I made the
mistake of calling him a her. Bottom line because you said you have anger
issues I thought I would share this so that you don't get to mad at people
at the beginning if they mess up. I wish you the best and I hope your able
to transition soon!!!
Yay! Glad to see another video again so soon, hopefully that means you'll
be making lots more :) I'm sure there's loads of topics to cover about
transitioning etc. What have peoples reactions been? Friends, family etc?
Do you experience any stigma out and about etc? xxx
SO LIKE HOW FAR CAN THIS BE TAKEN, WILL IT INVOLVE CUT CLIP AND MAKE PARTS
AND STUFF, HAS
" IT" BEEN DONE SUCCESSFULLY WHERE YOU CAN HAVE A PENIS THAT WORKS, ID BE
AFRAID IT WOULD WANT TO ONLY WATCH ME TIE MY SHOES.
LOL!! You didn't give us a name to use other than "The Boyfriend!!" Does
Therapy include Transplanted organ, penis etc? Good luck.
Wiccan, What was the last Statue Video about? Was it a Ritual? I switched
it off.
You both look wonderful together. :) This is great info and despite me not
having it or knowing people that have it, I'm looking forward to watching.
The only one who has ever fucked up commentating on Caiden Cowger was The
Orion Broadcast. Great job, guys! Caiden infuriates me to no end. This
commentary is better than your first commentary. :D