Postpartum depression abandonment Videos

What are some questions, or some of the most important things I should be asking/saying to a new therapist to make sure they understand me, my situation, and what I need most? I have a pattern of being closed off from every new psychologist/psychiatrist/therapist, purely because they never understand what I need out of it, and I'm an incredibly uncomfortable person with just sitting down and telling my life story. I am a quiet BPD, and my symptoms aren't very typical, I feel as though all these new diagnoses and efforts to fix only the surface issues have made some of the forgotten symptoms a lot worse; overall it's doing a lot of damage to my mental stability. I have given up on getting help and have developed my own (bad) coping skills. I just need to start fresh and with the right words. P.S. Thankyou a million times for helping me understand things I've never had explained to me, especially about BPD and topics that relate to. You are a beacon of positive, and realistic light.

#katifaq when do the thoughts/urges to sh go away? Will they ever? How are we supposed to deal with them if they don't go away? I've been "clean" for over a year and still get the urges, sometimes they're really strong but sometimes I can brush them off. I'm just worried that they'll be there forever and I won't be able to fight them anymore. (FYI I don't have a Ther).

litterally 20mins ago my mum shouted at me and she said that I was useless and I always ruin things and that I'm selfish and not considerate to others and she basically said I was a doormat aswell . she said I had no common sense. and if I wanted to I could just leave the house and become adopted or she could just send me away to a bording school. I'm just crying so much and I don't know what to do.

hey kati loved this I always fear this I feel so ashamed as I always let anger take control and that is how I lose so many friends and I don't just hurt me I hurt others kati how could I not let anger get the better of me and how to not make things result in restraint help I'm so stuck .