+ngiw From what I recall, she's a romance author, and therefore would only be known by those who read those types of books. I don't think Jack reads anything at all. ;) XD
One question, Is Bing his father's last name or his mother's? I've always
wondered where Chandler's last name was from. I always assumed it was from
his dad since obviously he and his mother were married. But what about
after the divorce? It's small thing, but I've always wondered.
+yu stu I actually got to meet her a couple months ago. She looks just as gorgeous as she does in this video clip! Her sister, Cathryn Hart, is my acting coach.
NOTE - Please excuse my typo in the beginning of the video. The correct title of the episode is "The One Where Joey Moves Out". At Jack's birthday party, ...
+Lucy Hunt Hey, I never noticed that! ^^ Why that little hussy, haha... nah, Monica's awesome. But this does put quite an interesting quirk on her "love life list" record. XD
+THE TOY FROM THE 1980'S CHANNEL Eh, sort of. The way I see it though, it's only sick if he was close to her as she grew up. Since he hadn't seen her in a really long time though, he probably doesn't look at her as a little kid, lol. He probably looks at her as a separate person completely, since they really got to know each other as adults. I mean, when they met on the show, I'm not 100% sure but I don't think they even really recognized each other. It's sorta like they met each other for the first time, with an entirely new perspective.
+Indra Sumpena It's also interesting to point out that "to have a thing for someone" also means that you like them.Example: I have a thing for this guy in my class.
Not sure if anyone else noticed this, but at 2:07 if you look behind Jack
Gellar while he's talking about the porch swing, you'll see that the
apartment set ends ...and also see tape on the floor where the cameras and
such are supposed to go.
+Simply Visual Its because the original episodes have a smaller screen ratio.The episodes for comedy central are set to fit wide screen, as a consequence we are watching the original tapes with not editing for screen formatting. Sure they did not notice.
Since ya'll liked my mom in the last video, I figured I'd put her in another video. And since ya'll liked the video with SomeTipsForLife on stillsoundlyawake, ...
ok. Seeing a pillow thrown at you was the best thing ever. Do you think you
could do a video of just random stuff being thrown at you? I would love
that. NO JOKE. I mean like. Things that won't seriously injure your or
anything.
haha, i was working the other day. and the boys who cook at my work were
making fun of me. one of the remarks was "do you know why women have small
feet? so they're closer to the stove..." wow thanks..
Kudos to your Mom...Oy Vey I can't believe she didn't bitch slap robbie for
the "women should" comments. What a saggy pants piss ant...Sahrrry...ummm
but not really :P
I love that look at the end, with the fingers on the jaw, like, "God? Why?
Why me?" That's what I look like at least once a day teaching freshmen and
sophomores.
you should get the goat tattooed on you...that would be sexy!
TALKING to Parents/Friends about Eating Disorders Video #29
//www.katimorton.com/ This week's video is something that I decided to make based on the feedback I have received from all of you. Many of you have asked ...
I agree on all points. It is true that saying that you have an eating
disorder makes things a lot easier - in my experience, people stopped
questioning me about food and that took away much anxiety about dealing
with any situation with food involved. What happened, however, is that they
also stopped talking about the problem: no questions about food, but also
no questions about the eating disorder. And I felt abandoned. You are so
right when you say that it is important to keep talking about it.
Oh no honey:( I am so sorry that they are not understanding:( I would
honestly download my free workbook and work on that, I would also keep
seeing your school counselor and if you cannot keep seeing her I would ask
for a referral. Then you can call your insurance company (number is on the
back of your insurance card) and see who is covered in your area.. and make
an appt. I would then tell your parents that you are still struggling and
you have found a therapist who can help and is covered.
I think talking to a friend first can be best.. because they seem to be
more understanding :) I would begin by journaling out what it is you think
you want to say and just sort of "pretend" you are saying it... see how it
feels :) Also, I find it best to start by saying something like "I have
been feeling really down lately... and sometimes I find myself not eating
(or eating more) as a way to deal with that." cause that is a softer way of
saying how we feel :) U know?? I hope that helps!!
Hey Kati. My parents are really great and supportive and do a lot of things
that you recommend but I really don't find that helpful. I find it so much
easier to stay in recovery when I can do it on my own (when my parents
aren't trying to spend extra time with me and talk to me about this all the
time) because then I feel too guilty and conflicted to actually deal with
recovery. I just feel like I need space but every source I've looked at
says otherwise. What should I do?
I find it interesting that your therapist would meet with them and you had
to wait outside. Especially if that was not what you had asked her to do.
There is so much to talk to them about and try to get them to understand
what you are going through...I am so sorry that you had such an awful
experience:( I think I am extra careful and try to be as clear as possible
with parents because I worry about something like this happening. Thank you
so much for sharing your story
I actually have not!! Great idea honey!! I will put it on my list :) I
would honestly wear a sweater or something unless you want to talk about
it. If you do, then I would explain it by saying that sometimes when you
are feeling low you will scratch yourself to release some of the emotion
you feel. Then I would say that it used to help but you are working on it
now... obviously you can put it however you prefer, but hopefully that can
give you a good start:) xoxo
I really wish my parents would listen , i've given up to telling them. I
have a disordered eating pattern that consists of restricting to always
eating to restricting again. My parents were aware of it about a year ago
when my HIghschool called junior year. They did not do anything about it
just told me to get over it. So now a year later i am still struggling but
hide it because I am sick of being told what i am told. How to i get them
to listen?
I think you should start talking to them about it and tell them about
things bothering you. Maybe they're afraid of triggering you or making it
worse? The same thing happened to me too. I was relieved I didn't have to
worry about being sent back to therapy and didn't even have to change, but
looking back I felt abandoned too. Like, do you really not care that I'm
doing these things? Did I mean so little? It's kind of an empty relief,
yanno?
Hey, I was just wondering what would be the most... effective... way to
respond when people that honestly care tell you that you need to eat.
There's always just an awkward silence and I never quite know how to make
them understand without explaining everything. And it's hard because the
truth is that I don't really care what happens to me, and telling them that
would hurt them. Do you have any reccomendations as to what to say?
Wow!! yeah I would be hurt too...do you think you would ever be strong
enough to ask her about the letter?? I feel that this is something that
needs to be talked about and you need to feel understood and cared for. I
know it's hard, but it's usually this lack of care and attention that can
make us do our ED and cutting behaviors in the first place...Let me know
what happens..I am sorry that you had such a non-response:(
That can be really hard, and to be honest, I think the best way to address
it is to first let them know that you appreciate that they want to
help..and tell them you love them. Then just explain that it isn't that
simple and that you are working on it. The more we talk about it and just
let them know that it really isn't just about the food..hopefully the more
they understand:) Try that and see if that helps..
The point is, I had so much I needed to talk about, like my hidden eating
disorder and bad things that were happening. I got angry and went
completely silent during session and eventually they gave up and I got
smart about hiding things. Over a decade later I still can't imagine ever
talking to them about anything. I think they meant well, but it was the
worst time ever and it could have been so different.
Hi, Two of my closet friends have eD and one of them is also cutting with
another one of my friends. Do you think you could do a video on how to act
around friends with disorders like the dos and donts. i really care about
them and I don't want to say the wrong thing and trigger them. Also my
friends with EDs ask me a lot of questions about their weight and if they
are skinny. What do i say????
I hope a lot of parents watch this, but it's not just food stuff that's
sensitive. When I was a kid I was forced to see a therapist when everyone
found out I was cutting. Everything was handled terribly, was out of my
control, and my parents were out of line how they dealt with things at
home. My therapist always met and planned with them while I waited outside
of her office.
I am so sorry that they did not respond well to you talking to them...:( If
you think that they would be up for it, you can show them a video of mine
(that has helped for others) or at least get them to agree to let you see a
therapist.. cause even if they think it is a phase than you should at least
get help for it now..right??! Let me know if you think that will help!
No that is not normal. She is YOUR therapist. I can understand needing to
see your parents for a bit to go over what they need to do to help you, but
I always keep my client in the room. I do not like to have any secrets from
my client or make them feel alienated. That definitely does not fall within
what I do for my patients. I am so sorry that that happened to you :(
Is that normal for a therapist to do that? I mean, I get needing a few
minutes to talk to parentals, but it was happening every session, and then
towards the end it would be for 10-15 minutes. I just played Gameboy while
they talked. Eventually she gave up during the sessions and would spend the
rest of the sessions with them too.
Hey kati, have you done a video about explaining SH to family and friends
because I was at a family party and I was in a short sleeved top and the
looks I got Not nice the younger ones I expected the questions (to them I
had been helping in the garden) But the worst looks were from the adults
Please help me!!!!!!!!
If you think that is the right approach for you, then I say go for it!
Everyone is different and I think that it could be really helpful in the
long run for your mum to know about your ED and hopefully understand enough
to support your recovery. Let me know when you plan on doing this and how
it goes!!!
I had to tell my mom about my cutting and eating problems, my school
counselor somehow found out and said I had to.. I wrote her a letter and
left it for her to read.. But she never even said anything to me. Just
acted like nothing ever happened :/ I mean I was kinda happy, but then I
was really hurt..
I'm not sure if I would be strong enough, I was scared enough the first
time. But I feel I should talk to her. Yeah I feel it needs to be talked
about too because right now I defiantly do not feel understood or cared
for... Thanks for the response. I will try to let you know what happens.
Yeah I know...it is really hard. If you could somehow have a session with
the counselor or something that could be a safer place to talk about it. I
am not sure what the set up is, but that is just another idea. If you need
any tips on how to talk about it let me know:)
i wish i had showed my parents this instead of going to my school
counselor. she didn't explain it well to them because she wasn't familiar
with the topic so they thought i recovered in a single day and all they did
was worry about my reputation in school.
Yes of course!! You may want to check out my video about relationships and
pregnancy.. cause in the beginning I talk about relationships and how to
tell those we love about our SH.. but I will put out another video on this
topic as well :) xoxo
I know it is really hard to actually decide to talk about it with them, but
see if any of these tips help and feel free to journal about it before as
kind of "practice" before you actually talk to them:) Let me know how it
goes!!
I find that that can help.. cause you have done all the work and you just
need the copay money and maybe a ride to their office.. I hope that helps!!
Cause you deserve to get the help you need and feel supported :) xoxo
Any way you can "restart" the conversation so you feel more supported? I
know it is hard, but if you think it would really help in the recovery
process than it would be worth it. Thank you so much for your feedback!
Oh no :( Well maybe you could show this to them now.. and hopefully they
will understand it better?? I am so glad that you found my channel honey!!
Let me know if you have any additional questions :) xoxo
I told my parents, once. But they didn't believe me. They think it is just
a phase, and it's not. I've been dealing with it forever. I need more help,
but they don't believe me :( What do I do?
#KATIFAQ - What are your thoughts on the Maudsley method? It has a 90%
success rate in clinical trials, but this video is basically the opposite
of the method. :)
I want to talk to my dad because I want to get help but I'm scared and
don't know now.:/ I've talked to my best friend about it though.....
I Cried Because I Couldn't Recognise My Parents ♥ Wengie
Lets get to know each other a bit better :) Winner of iPhone Giveaway - Michelle D.!! Winner of Slumber Party Ziall + Friends!! Thank you to my lovely Bf/Fiance ...
can i know how do u create ur video to be so bright and vibrant? and so
clear too!
This video is very touching. I think coming from a humble upbringing always
help to see things differently in life, and you can overcome more things.
+JaneryLam I use the curves effect in premier pro to change the brightness and contrast :)!! Also I have a HUGE window so the lighting is really bright in my room :)! <3
Hi Wengie! I just stumbled on this video and was touched at how incredibly
similar it sounds to my own life. The only difference being my parents
moved to Austria, instead of Australia XD. I was left with my grandparents
in China and also didn't recognise them the first time we "met" when I was
old enough to remember stuff. We had very little money in the early years
and my mum used to make me dolls and toys to play with, which definitely
influenced my decision go into DIY on Youtube. Luckily, they also worked
very hard and we eventually had a very comfortable life but being a first
gen immigrant really makes you appreciate tiny things that many take for
granted. Thanks for a great vid that brings back lots of memories. Also,
LOVE your cat X3
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