How to Be Assertive: 4 Assertive Communication Secrets
How to be assertive? //www.TruePotentialCounseling.com In this video Andrea Cairella, LPCC in Long Beach, CA offers 4 Assertive Communication Secrets ...
I had this teacher in my art class that always said my work was junk, and
she always hated my artworks because according to her, I was not using the
right technique which was false, and on the final exam she asked me: does
your deserve an A? and I said YES because I'm confident of myself and my
art, but she said NO, your not using the right technique, then I answered
art is much more than that, is about expression not only how you draw on a
paper. I think is hard to be assertive when you talk about art. THANKS
+Ruli Matsumoto Sounds like your situation was a good opportunity to grow. One to listen and be open to feedback and your development as an artist and two to be able to use the assertiveness skills to communicate effectively. I hope you were able to apply the tools suggested in the video either in this situation or future situations.
How to be Assertive When You're Introverted | NATURALLY KAI
Hey guys! Happy Friday. I'm back with another Creative Conversation on how to be assertive if you're introverted. One of the biggest takeaways from this video is ...
its all relative, its all such a mess in europe and elswhere because those
gangsters from the norhtern countries afre telling us from the south that "
we have an aggressive body language" and Im sick of hearing this - fuck off
with your behaviorism sponsored by nazis and rockefellers and illuminati !
its all lies designed to control more and more people. although she may
mean good here, if you put that woman in italy or spain shed look
ridiculous. in the end life is the beat teacher,
It's an advertisement. A commercial. Like a commercial for say, Pepsi. Sure
it's scripted but Pepsi is real. Despite the bad analogy, I think they just
needed to pop 4 minutes of content to get the message across. Looks pretty
legit though,
As you get older, you naturally become more assertive or you become a
doormat. I moved back to where I grew up, and because I was more assertive,
I lost all of my childhood friends, so I moved on and out of the area.
I believe it's more important what is being said and not how. I agree with
the cotent. Besides, all speakers take different 'hats' sometimes and do a
little bit of acting on stage :-).
@pierneus That is exactly what i have been researching and studying. The
latin-root languages carry a spirit that create shame or/and guilt
societies. This type of environment conditions people to be co-dependant
(think French social system), needy, unambitious- basically intimidated
enuchs castrated by their administrations. The background can be the
religious heritage (clergy relations with the people). The Francophonie is
an example of that, where the law, mentalitiy and lifestyle show this.
@1981footboy SAdly sometimes when I stand up for myself, the other party
still neglects me. I wish people would be more proactive I wish people
would pay more attention I wish people would communicate more I wish people
would start listening By failing to do the above, they can be very
dangerous. Its not acceptable. I made myself a promise that from now on, I
will not be walked on. Its annoys me so much. People annoy me so much, I
just want to just crash in bed. I've had eniuff!
This might be a little late, seeing as this was uploaded 6 years ago, but
assertive speakers should use body language to EMPHASIZE a point, not make
it. Also, repeating the same gestures can become crippling. Mind you, I am
only within the first minute of the monologue. Also, what's with the
monotony of his voice? Emphasis is key for assertive speaking. There's a
point to be made - speak up. I feel like he had several points that could
have been made evident but were not.
The customer failed to argue that despite the banks errors regarding his
account, the bank had never incurred fines from him. Unspoken policy states
that if one side of a contract is fulfilled, the other side is expected to
be as well. Why is ti that the bank can fine the customer for a minor error
when the customer can't employ the same policy? We have forgotten that the
success of a company is directly dependent on it's customers, not the other
way around.
I have realized that this is a problem that i have sometimes, causing me to
be signed up and so busy, like superwoman..etc- i realized i cant do it
all- say no sometimes, even a "sorry".I have learned that if youwere
manipulated when a child, youmay do that or be a victim of it, even while
not aware..thanks!
First, I apologize for being so derogatory. My problem is basically as if I
don't have any backbone. I've had co-workers who had no right to push me
around. I just get very shaky when someone is pushing me around and I'm
afraid I'll lose control and look and act inappropriate.
If you want to present something in a certain way that will make people
follow you try to present the subject in an extraordinary way. For me this
video makes me understand even better why good messages and ideas don't
reach people because of the person who presents them.
I hate this guy and all the other assertiveness idiots. All they ever deal
with is very generic things. When do they ever deal with things that are
causing people distress? Such as when people are pushing you around at
work???
write down incidents if you think you are being harrassed, there are laws
against bullying. this is for people who are being rude and whatever to
you. keep records of inappropriate behaviour and if you can take it to hr.
@WickedKnight07 you could tell him you don't appreciate that behaviour and
then it's up to you to decide if you are willing to take verbal abuse from
a person like that and still hold him in regards as a customer.
Does it call for assertiveness when a customer walks up to you and calls
you stupid and that you dont understand english even after trying to help
despite how shitty THEY speak english without getting fired?
does assertiveness apply when asking a girl out for a date or asking for
her number? or you should be as subtle as possible and use informal and
sarcasm language to avoid being direct and coming too strong.
Thanks,its a marvellous help for everyone to learn to be assertive in a
smooth confident and tells how to stick for what we can do and just say NO
for what we cant but in an easy persuassive way
And I wish everyone great success in overcoming all of their lack of
assertiveness issues and may you come to terms with all of your issues and
live a long, happy and healthy life!
Wage war on the Motherfuckers who jerk you around at work. Rebel against
them in your own way. Say no, no and no again and if they still can't hear
you Fuck Off might work.
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