@RagdollSweets thanks so much!!:) I think I dooo, and I feel so much
confident here for sure ^^ and yes a lot of young boys are very androgynous
and pretty:) ahh jrockers *_* so hot XDD awwn but to me you pass very well,
and tho you may look like a young boy, thats okay cause I can get into
places cheap and as a middle schooler! hehehe awn.. I'm so sorry to hear
that.. race is a whole other issue as well, in my city not a lot of mixed
race people so.. its like they assume that we're foreigners..
@stillprince you know its a bit of both I would say:3 the fashion, and the
femme side of young japanese men in society now, I feel very comfortable in
being able to fit in, but then within the family and friends and on the
surface and reality people act as if there are no lgbt people in the
family. its very strange, I don't know how people live just hiding the rest
of there lives, even though there are no out people in my family here, I
suspect a few, so I don't want to hide, and raise awareness
Congrats on the safe trip to Japan! And I bet you pass just fine there :D
You know how feminine and androgynous jrockers and visual kei peeps are.
Plus your jaw really helps, it's not soft or fem Asian like mine. My
friend, Ayame, is half-black and half-jap and was having an identity crisis
in college because neither clique would really accept her. Iunno I just
felt you should know that you're not alone :D And we're in similar
situations! It really is awkward to be stealth but not. Love
@Bionibly oh no way! hehe what part of japan were you in? did you work here
as well? I am actually living here now:D awn i see~ ooh im so glad you had
a good experience here! im so glad for you! I think that happends to me at
work.. and maybe people can't really tell if i am boy or a girl but no one
really saids anything so its nice, when i was working back in the states i
got harassed more about my gender identity then here in japan, its more
positive and get told i look good as male:)
Totally with you man. For me its simple to explain and move on for people I
know but haven't seen in a bit but always tough with family. You don't want
rejection. I'm in that situation now getting to know my fathers side and
the a pretty conservative old style baptist black Christian. I love them so
much in the time I've got to know them but idk how they will react to me. I
hope you can find an standable ground with your family where you can be
true to them about yourself without fear!
@genderboi aw thanks so much!! and np:) i love sharing my experiences
here.. because it really is interesting! funny you mention that now because
I am in that situation now working part time in japan. being stealth/not
stealth and almost 4 months on testosterone and working as female, I sort
of got confused as to what the hell am i doing.. putting myself through
this situation but I am only doing this to save up for surgery since the
currency is good here compared to the dollar:3
of course! that is good to hear! congrats on T, when are you planning on
starting? thanks:D T is amazing.. im loving every change that im seeing
along the way.. i dont think about T or gender as much pre-T because thats
all i wanted so now i can actually focus more at work.. i'm even having a
stache coming in but no one noticed at work xD its hilarious! more muscles
coming in and defintely noticed my face change, hunger, energy, and the
great sex drive haha XP peace&love jesse
@sionv2009 thats awesome! XDD hahaha I wish... I've thought about that
but.. imagine how complicated that can get X.X I do know of a ftm who is a
dancer, and ikemen type his name is atsushi. ahh i see.. do your relatives
know how you identify? how do you plan on coming out to them? oh you did?
good for you! I'm so glad, I still want to change my name >< cool, I
strongly identify with pan, and i'm sure DX I want to stop harming..
instead I cry it out:3
It seems like it's more acceptable in Japan than it is over here in the
states. You're just starting (from what I'm seeing). I know some FTM people
and they say it's hard and like a roller-coaster within the first year but
I honestly wouldn't know =P I say confuse the hell out of people with your
gender. If they still think you're a girl, let them know you're not. There
are boys that look like girls so why not the other way around right? lol
@JesseW213 I'm a girl but with short hair and the way I style it + my
style, some people mistake me for a boy... it's not bad but it's pretty
funny to see their expression when I tell them otherwise (my hair is longer
now so it's not like that anymore). Sooner or later, you're going to have
to come out with it. If they love you, they'll get over it and accept you.
It's not your fault you are the way you are. People are born a certain way.
@senpai16 exactly.. it really is tough, I am so tempted to come out very
very soon. I am terrified of rejection.. but who isn't right? especially
with the family.. >< ahh jeeze.. same here, I feel you, we just have to
stay strong, and if they can't accept the truth, they are not worth it, and
I am going to end up leaving then. thanks so much, and same goes to you too!
You have so much strength! you can do it !~ If I didn't see the title, I
thought you were a boy ^_^ ! Don't worry about not being able to pass as a
boy hehe! Your so cute! I'm sure many girls think your attractive !~ I
know! Japan is like there's a fashion show every day! Its so crazy! hahaha!
I've been there once and I want to go back!~ I wish you luck ^_^!
Lol you're not ugly at all. You look like a very cute, if young, boy. As a
bisexual transguy, I'm also worried about Japan. I definitely want to visit
someday, but I'm unsure of whether it'd ever be a suitable place for me to
live. If you want to or it's no trouble for you, I'd like it if you'd
message me and let me know more about your experience in Japan.
im exactly the same as you dude. I'm half Japanese and half British and
ftm. you are イケメン too. btw like you could be in ジャニーズ lol im going to be in
an akward position too. i have to go to tokyo for new years to see my
retatives and i have to come out because i changed my name. it suck so bad.
@MrMerchiodos i agree with you! i really wish the same positive experience
i have had here as well, and for other people:) but its not like that
unfortunately in other ignorant places :( definitely come visit! i am sure
you will love it~
Dude im sure you pass more than you realize. Confidence is the most
important thing tho if you believe you are passing and carry yourself with
confidence people wont have a reason to think youre anything but male :D
nice vid
XD Indeed and thats my goal! EXACTLY today I saw a man dressed in female
clothing, I'm not sure if they identified as trans but he didn't look like
he shaved all the way so that was kind of neat:D genderfucking stuff hehe!
Don't think that you are not good looking. I think your cute. ;) If you'd
come to my country everyone I know would die to get you. So bro, don't feel
bad, here is many others too, like me, hoping to be as fine as you.
@JesseW213 my relatives probably dont have any idea that im trans. i have
to come out when i go to see them next january. we always go to tokyo to
see them. I dont really want to go but i want otoshidama. lol
ah, keep your head up. You can when you are ready and this may not be the
time. and Im sure you blend in alot better there then in the USA. There are
differences to both countries. I think you look awesome.
i wish everyone was accepting to trans as they are in japan. thats why i
love japan because everyone is accepting. i would love to move or visit
japan one day because i love everything bout the culture
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